metis
aged ecumenical anthropologist
You simply do not understand much about theology and theological terminology, and until you do all you will be doing is jumping from one uninformed idea after another.Paul warned not to let any man spoil you through philosophy. He said the fullness of the Godhead dwelled in Messiah bodily. Colossians 2:8-9 (It's too bad people won't listen to what the word of God says.)
All that talk of essence is just man made doctrine, which makes it worthless. If it was truth it would be found somewhere in the scriptures. It would have been taught by the apostles.
I have no patience for those who strut around claiming to know but don't have the background to do anything more than barely scratch the surface. "Theology" is a science whereas one can get a ph.d. in it, thus is not just picking up your handy-dandy Bible with no serious educational background in it and being able to pick up and understand certain concepts. Much like in medicine, there is terminology that may not be understood by one who does not have that background. I am far from being an expert, but I took classes in it years ago and have done tons of reading for over five decades now.
IOW, let me recommend you s-t-u-d-y, and then maybe come back and then we can possibly have a serious discussion. Sorry to be so abrupt, but my patience sometimes wears thin.
Take care.