I don't understand what you mean.
That seems to be the same thing I was saying. The local RCC parish and the Pope are more welcoming to me than the RF Catholics like St.Frank and the RF staff.
I am confused by your post.
Tom
Sorry, I can't see half of the convo, some people are on block. Catholics really don't give a damn most of the time whether or not you are Catholic. Anyway, I'm the wrong guy to ask. Gender to me is tab a, slot b, or combination. Not that I care much what sex someone dresses as either... I find it basically irrelevant, and overspoken about. To me, I think it matters what the parents want mostly on this issue. It's not like godparents really have much of a role, I find it silly to argue about it anyway. You can specify in a will directly through legal action who will tend to your kids and it's the only thing that matters in a court anyway. It's a matter of addressing the "problem" in a way that is never going to matter. The church can't keep your kids from the godparent of choice if you have papers -- that's about it.