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Sometimes it's for medical issues that lie beyond the capabilities for a son and or daughter to properly care for their parents.
is not selfish that someone abondon what suppose birth him to this life and take care of him ?I get the gist of what is implied. Other times, it's for more selfish reasons for which aging parents can be an inconvience and it's just easier to pay someone else to take care of them and bury them when they die.
IF it's happened that medical issues happened to son/daugther , why the parents would not abandon their kids ?
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this is may sensive question , but why some people do that to their parents , or one of them ?
Actualy this issue is very rare here (in Muslim countries) , i am hear is very normal and commun in West .@Godobeyer , you would have to ask each individual case why they made that decision. It's a personal decision. To some extent cultural, but mostly personal.
Actualy this issue is very rare here (in Muslim countries) , i am hear is very normal and commun in West .
Actualy this issue is very rare here (in Muslim countries) , i am hear is very normal and commun in West .
What do you mean by the term "retirement home"? I think that some readers (myself included) may not understand what this type of facility is like.Would any one of you accept that his/her childern take him/her to retirement home ?
She may feel unwanted or heavyMy mom is in a retirement community, although it doesn't look anything like your caricature. It cost $150,000 to move in and about $4,000 a month permanently.
Three of my sisters wanted her to move in with them. They added on to their house, bought duplexes, and even tried "Mom, I want you around my kids the way Gran was around us. I'll build anything you want if you will move here". She wouldn't do it.
She is a very independent person. She wants things her way, and she can afford to make it happen. So, she lives in this palace in Chicago where she is still in charge of her own life and us kids come and visit. But we're still the kids and she is still the mom.
Tom
Muslims have larger families along with being based more on single income from one individual where as Western families are smaller and usually dual income. This can force the issue into only one option due to restricted income but also a larger support structure.
House infirm , house of aged parents.What do you mean by the term "retirement home"? I think that some readers (myself included) may not understand what this type of facility is like.
I don't think you know what it is to be around powerful women. She was not unwanted or heavy. She is opinionated and rich and won't give up what she worked hard to get.She may feel unwanted or heavy
You hear correctly.Actualy this issue is very rare here (in Muslim countries) , i am hear is very normal and commun in West .
I am the unique son of parents i will not imagine that i will take my parent to retirement home .
it's about love and fidelity and backup the good deeds to them , for their care and birth me .