Father Heathen
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I think repressing sexuality and treating it like it's something sinful or shameful is immoral.
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Doesn't karma itself require a sense of good vs. bad? If an action accumulates negative karma, then it must be bad. If an action accumulates positive karma, then it must be good.
If you wanted to, I suppose you could consider sexual activity that's irresponsible, risky and/or psychologically unhealthy as immoral.
All karma is "bad" karma in that all karma binds us to samsara.Doesn't karma itself require a sense of good vs. bad? If an action accumulates negative karma, then it must be bad. If an action accumulates positive karma, then it must be good.
I agree. Sexuality is good. Using sexuality in a way that takes advantage of/hurts others is bad.I think repressing sexuality and treating it like it's something sinful or shameful is immoral.
What would you deem "immoral" sexual behavior, no matter what?
I noticed that all of those examples describe intent and consequences, but did not describe sexual activity itself. Would you say then that ALL sexual activity is permitted as long as it meets that criteria?Sexual behavior which seeks to take without consent, seeks to posess or own, or is used for control or power is immoral. Sexual behavior that shirks responsibility for the outcomes of the action (pregnanacy, disease, relationships) is immoral.
As for what public behaviors which are immoral...only those above even though I personally find anything more than hand-holding or chaste kisses as lacking in good manners.
I noticed that all of those examples describe intent and consequences, but did not describe sexual activity itself. Would you say then that ALL sexual activity is permitted as long as it meets that criteria?
I think that this is the crux of the issue.Permitted is different than moral/immoral in my book. What we choose as acceptible boundaries of behavior in our societies are our mores/customs and affect our laws. I think immorality refers to what is wrong in all places and among any peoples, even if they have come to accept it in their laws and mores.
1. You claim that you can call something wrong even when others do not believe it is wrong, because you believe it is wrong. That is true. But then it is also the case that they can call you homophobic even if you don't believe that it's homophobic, because they believe that you're calling it wrong is homophobic. It cuts both ways.I think that this is the crux of the issue.
Let's face it. Christians are currently wrongly accused of being ignorant sex-phobes, homophobes, whatever and it's just... not... true.
Immorality, within law, is determined based on the interaction between independents, for everyone's own protection. Immorality, within religion, is determined by the self (and, I might add, not supposed to judge OUTSIDE of the self). Religion's role is not to determine the law of the land (that would be theocracy) but to protect the individual.
If you, your family, or your friends are being negatively influenced by the acts of others, you are totally justified, under law, for claiming that it is "wrong"; while you believe someone to be hurting THEMSELVES through sexual activity, a religious person might call that "wrong", but not in a judgmental way. It is for, in their mind, the other person's own good to call such a thing "wrong". Call that homophobic if you want, but it's not.
To allow one realm (law or religion) to directly influence the other in their appropriate circumstances, however... THAT is wrong. It is not religion's role to determine what the law deems wrong and right. That being said, it is also inappropriate for law to restrict religion if it is not infringing on the rights of anyone.
And the law already treats everyone equally, but that's a different thread topic.1. You claim that you can call something wrong even when others do not believe it is wrong, because you believe it is wrong. That is true. But then it is also the case that they can call you homophobic even if you don't believe that it's homophobic, because they believe that you're calling it wrong is homophobic. It cuts both ways.
2. Personally, I don't care if you call/think/believe it's wrong - go right ahead. And I won't even call you names for it. Just so long as you agree that the law should treat everyone equally.
No, it does not.And the law already treats everyone equally,
No, it does not.
All karma is "bad" karma in that all karma binds us to samsara.
If you are bound by desire (and I don't claim to not be), then the karma that results from empathetic compassionate acts is more desirable than the karma that results from callous, malicious acts. But ultimately, one has to understand that all karma binds us to samsara.So the karma that results from empathetic, compassionate acts is no more or less desirable than the karma that results from callous, malicious acts?
No, one can have love, hope, and compassion and still not be bound to the outcome. The vow of the bodhisattva is based on caring about the suffering of others. But a bodhisattva knows that ultimately what reduces suffering is nibbana. Short term fixes are just that, short term.It would seem that the only way to separate ourselves from the whole karma game and "samsara" would be to disassociate and detach from love, hope and compassion for ourselves and others, and to adopt a stoic indifference and isolation from the world, requiring either self-dehumanization or death.
But still: compassion = good, malice = bad, so wouldn't that imply some sort of "good & evil"?If you are bound by desire (and I don't claim to not be), then the karma that results from empathetic compassionate acts is more desirable than the karma that results from callous, malicious acts. But ultimately, one has to understand that all karma binds us to samsara.
No, one can have love, hope, and compassion and still not be bound to the outcome. The vow of the bodhisattva is based on caring about the suffering of others. But a bodhisattva knows that ultimately what reduces suffering is nibbana. Short term fixes are just that, short term.
I didn't say "compassion = good, malice = bad." I said that compassionate acts would lead to karma that the unenlightened would find more desirable and malicious acts would lead to karma that the unenlightened would find less desirable. Karma is not based on a judgment of good and evil. We add that judgment by our deciding that desirable things are "good" and undesirable things are "bad."But still: compassion = good, malice = bad, so wouldn't that imply some sort of "good & evil"?
That's not what I'm saying. Buddhism is not nihlism (that's one of the most common mistakes). It does not say that things are futile. If it did, then why be Buddhist? It's not like it's easy.So separating oneself from the concerns of humanity and the world is the proper course because trying to change the state of things is ultimately futile? I'm not sure I like that kind of thought.
I didn't say "compassion = good, malice = bad." I said that compassionate acts would lead to karma that the unenlightened would find more desirable and malicious acts would lead to karma that the unenlightened would find less desirable. Karma is not based on a judgment of good and evil. We add that judgment by our deciding that desirable things are "good" and undesirable things are "bad."