Spirit of Light
Be who ever you want
Buddhist dont see sex between husband and wife as bad, but it all the other stuff that is not good. But to atain enlightenment one need to let go of all attachments to life. one does not need sex to live a happy life. But for me who live with a woman yes we do have sex from time to time. But i dont get caught up in it. As you maybe know. Buddhists live in the moment