Again. I don't want to. I just want to hear others now. If there are none..
*crickets*
OK, Fair enough. I have never been sexually harassed in the workplace, but I have been harassed -- even as a boss (there are fools born every minute). Hopefully, some women who've dealt with this problem will weigh in here. I can only tell you this: You have my empathy. I know that's not enough, but you have it anyway.
Now here is what I've done when harassed. First, I have kept a detailed journal of the incidents. And I have logged every incident of harassment, in detail, without distortion and objectively as possible, complete with dates and times. Then I have added my reaction to the incident -- but only after first describing it in objective terms.
Something like this, "August 19, 1990. 10:03 AM. About 15 minutes ago, it was reported to me by Debbie that Cindy told her and two other people that she had seen me on TV the night before being arrested for child molestation. The two other people were Prentis and Mike. I have not spoken with either one, nor with Cindy, about the incident. If that's what Cindy truly said, her information is a complete fabrication. I have never molested a child nor been arrested for doing so. I intend to speak with Prentis and Mike as soon as possible.
Debbie's report leaves me stunned. I feel violated. I hope it is not true, that she has somehow misunderstood what Cindy said."
By the way, I just quoted to you, as best I can recall now, something that actually happened to me, and that I logged at the time. I was advised by my lawyer to do that. The reasoning is, that in a court of law, such testimony can carry weight (at least in Illinois at the time). The more detailed the better. The more objective, the better.
So start by keeping a journal. You might not need it, but if you do, it will be invaluable to you.
That's the very first thing you should do.
EDIT: Curious George is spot on! Please take his advice into consideration.
EDIT AGAIN: I just remembered that my lawyer said it was very important to specify how soon after the incident you logged it. So, for instance, if the incident happened at ten o'clock, you should specify both the time of the incident and the time you logged it. The sooner you log something after it happens, the better.