He also commented on the talk show Bethenny when she asked does Mellissa really never refuse you ..he said 'No not really.Sometimes she fights it but I always win."
Excuse me? 'Fighting " her into sex?And obviously since he already admitted to if she says no "turning her around and ripping her clothes off" he is including physical "fighting".
She also described some of the reasons she has 'maintenance" sex..and frequent sex..
In the beginning, Joe wanted to have sex every single day, at least once, if not twice or three times…If I didn't give it to him once a day, he'd get upset.
I can do something that ****** him off on a Monday, but if we had sex on Sunday night, it blows over more easily. But if we haven't done it for two days and I give him attitude? It could be a huge fight.
Excuse me? She has sex with him or "else" .Hes a bully.He exibits hostility towards her for not having sex with him every single day.
Again he doesn't just yell either.He has thrown a high chair across the room and a chair in a restaurant.
That's a healthy dynamic that you promote for healthy marital sex?
Oh she also doesn't mind being called his puttata?(sp) I think its Italian for whore.Not because she is taking ownership back of that word..but so he doesn't go sleep with a real whore.
Oh that's real ideal ...thanks for the tips.
Yes we have a wonderful vibrant sex life..Im the wife..its my duty to have sex with him whenever HE wants to even if I don't. To help manage his rage ,and if I don't want him to rip my clothes off,and to keep him from banging a real whore.
Can't you feel the love and respect?
Oh and also she must initiate I guess in between him 'throwing her down' ...He commented because he might be tempted even by an 'ugly" woman coming on to him and just go for it. If he is not feeling that at home.
And did you read the part about on top of all this ..she 'has to be home" when he gets home because he doesn't like coming home to an empty house? She has to wait til he is not around to poop? He can ever know that she pooping let alone ever smell it.She has to stay by his side when they go out to party ..she cant hang out with her single girlfriends..shes not allowed to work and of course she has to keep in shape and keep him in mind when she decides what to wear ...
Its twisted...Oh she can "take it" that he vents his anger on her about his rough day.AND she calls it "honesty" and some sort of compliment that he knows she secure that he can be brutally honest with his complaints about her.
The woman has Stockholm syndrome if you ask me...
I say to each his own. BUT expect to be ridiculed that you ever "recommend" women enter into a relationship with these abusive oppressive dynamics. Or that a married woman looking for "tips" would be doing good to take the advice to "give in" to coerced sex under fear of verbal abuse and possibly physical..and in general be told what to by your husband "or else".
How do they not think that many aren't going to look at them like they are crazy for holding their marriage up as an example of a "good" marriage?The only ones I can imagine that would give a nod of approval are the misogynist /radical extreme religious that most women want to escape unless they are brain washed.This is a book about what NOT to do.
(Where are the ghosts?)
