I think kids sometimes could help give meaning and comfort to life too sometimes. Kids can be a blessing I bet, just a lot of work.
People can be a lot of work in general. Kids are just a specific kind of work... they want you to peel their oranges and snap their train tracks together. They also like to fight you on eating their potatoes, and turn changing their socks into a monumental task. However, to me, the work is of a mostly positive nature.
Adults create work, too, and that work differs as well, depending on your relationship with them.
If the chest pain doesn't go away, I won't be sleeping, but I just took a gabapentin and ibuprofen. That is supposed to help a little.
I just feel so sorry for sick or injured, scared, or agonizing people in Ukraine right now. Suffering makes me more sensitive to what others go through. It is like sharing some of the burden I suppose!
Some Saints have looked at it that way, like bearing with other people's crosses and afflictions!
Sometimes suffering does help you better relate to others...
I hope you're sleeping now.