Abstaining from sex or suppressing one's sexuality does not make sexual orientation change. Efforts to change gay people into straight people have been abysmal failures, and have psychologically damaged many in the process.
Many have: David Bowie, Mick Jagger, ...i'm sure a quick google on it will reveal countless people who have changed their ways.
But there's no evidence that's the case for gayness.
Of course there is, not in all cases, but many people have fallen into activities that they didn't anticipate nor expect. I've heard of a few that tried homosexuality just as an experiment. But, again, a quick search will reveal that a lot have succumbed to it unexpectantly.
Why do you regard any and all sexual desire as destructive?
Not even close at all. My entire thesis is based on the fact that physical intimacy is 10x better when we remain reserved and controlled about it, and deriving it from love for the person, not the physical.
Who told you this? Sex is more than "admiration" - I admire lots of people whom I never ****. Sex, generally, is a physical expression of physical attraction. Emotional attraction as well in many cases; humans routinely combine those features, and it seems to work out pretty well.
It hasn't worked out well at all (who told you this?) The fact that 'sex sells' is a curse on society, the fact the women are continuously exploited and objectified in the context of sex, is an abomination. Take a look at current pop culture, women dressed like tramps on videos - bending over with everything hanging out, everyone trying to look sexy, teen pregnancies, baby mamas, R Kelly, Mike Tyson and other prominent figure's rape charges, the divorce rate, players cheating on their girlfriends, etc... What the hell is working out pretty well? Show me one happy relationship, and I'll show you 50 miserable ones.
The issues with incest do not generally apply to unrelated gay people's relationships, so the analogy does not hold. The reason we're against incest is because a) such relationships usually involve adults and children, a relationship wherein there is a power differential where the child cannot fully consent and thus essentially amounts to abuse/rape; and b) there is a strong probability of birth defects in children of heterosexual incestuous relationships.
Again, i said outside of procreation - one is not meant to fall in love with their sister, just as one is not meant to fall in love with another of the same sex..
As long as two unrelated adults of the same sex want to have sex with each other and fully consent, why shouldn't they?
Just because someone wants to party all day long, why shouldn't they - it destroys good and productive character.
Actually you're not really appealing to reasoning, you're just dogmatically declaring that I should do this or that without actually explaining why.
What is "biologically conventional?" You mean heterosexual? You said earlier you are ashamed of those inclinations as well.
I'm ashamed of many of my inclinations,
not all. Meaning, it's not a double standard that i am professing. I gave the biological reason why homosexuality should always, and initially, be deemed peculiar, and how odd their behaviour and dress is - no dogma here.
There's a very Gnostic vibe to all of this - as though sex of any kind is somehow inherently degrading to us.
Never said that. I said keep it decent, natural, affectionate, and personal - not lustful, experimental or deviant.
As someone who was celibate for many years, on the promise that "it's so much better!"...no, it isn't. Not for most of us. Some folks are just not very sexual and celibacy seems to work for them. For most folks, gay straight or otherwise, sex is an incredibly pleasurable, positive experience for us that deepens our intimacy with people whom we love. We have no need to be ashamed of it.
I doubt that the majority of people have good sexual relationships as you claim, i highly doubt this. I hear nothing but misery and frustration from the people that i know.