Erebus
Well-Known Member
But just because a guy is more on the quiet side and wants a relationship other than sex doesnt mean he doesnt LOVE sex and can be great in bed.
If you ask me its more likely that the 'sensitive" guy ..the respectful guy is more likely in fact to be concerend with the woman in bed as well. :flirt: In regards to her pleasure specifically..
Love
Dallas
(its the quiet ones with the loud music inside..)
Oh I'm not saying he isn't interested in sex at all! I'm saying he's generally the one to go for a relationship with (sex being a part of that relationship generally speaking). The loud guy will often ONLY be worth one night of sex. Neither is a good or bad choice, it just depends on what you're after really
Actually I have a theory. In many cases, a woman is so blind sided by what is happening from guys like this they end up in bed without and real thought of it. I think it has little to do with physical attraction often times.
Of course alcohol completely changes the situation, than it is a mild form of rape IMO. Girls have to make decisions so quickly and from such aggressive men sometimes, they get confused and just go with the flow. Guys know this and hope and prey for this often times, which is why I equate it with a mild form of rape.
Sadly in our day and age, this type of behavior has become so common place, people don't pay much attention to it
I wouldn't really equate it with rape personally, I myself have avoided sleeping with certain people regardless of how drunk I've been and on the odd mistakes I've made, I would never consider myself to have been "raped" in any way.
I don't think much of meaningless sex, I consider it to be little more than masturbation with another person (if you see where I'm coming from?). I don't think it's particularly wrong or immoral though, I just don't often go for it myself.
*edit* I've also found that physical attraction is often far less important to women than it is to men. The most physically attractive guy in the world can struggle with women if he doesn't have the proper attitude.
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