So in a nutshell this is how it went,met a Woman in course of my work,she is married and so am I,both of us have long standing marriages,she is 8 years younger than me and beautiful,not just in looks though.
Anyway I met her about 8 months ago,thought she was beautiful but no problems so far,during those months work has meant us being in each others company and we became friends,cool I have other female friends so no problem,they are just friends.
During the last month we have been texting and calling each other via mobile phone more and more,didn't seem a problem because I text and call my other female friends,and of course seeing her when i'm at work,now we both realise that this is more than a friendship and although we haven't actually done anything like a full blown affair its what we are heading for.
I am now having a break from that work to work elsewhere thinking that if i Immerse myself in other work it would be easier for both of us to move on,spent more time with Wife,spend more time with family,fact is its worse,can't get her out of my head and she called yesterday and said the same thing about me,its driving me nuts,even lost my appetite.
We both agreed not to contact each other again but an hour after that conversation she called again and said she wants us to meet up and talk it over,i said its not a good idea because of what would probably follow but said I would sleep on it,7 am this morning she is texting again :cover:,have now turned phone off but all I keep thinking about is her :help:,am quite chuffed though that such a Woman would be interested in me,maybe theres life in the old Dog yet.
Please post some suggestions of how to get her out of my head :help: before I go crazy.
Anyway I met her about 8 months ago,thought she was beautiful but no problems so far,during those months work has meant us being in each others company and we became friends,cool I have other female friends so no problem,they are just friends.
During the last month we have been texting and calling each other via mobile phone more and more,didn't seem a problem because I text and call my other female friends,and of course seeing her when i'm at work,now we both realise that this is more than a friendship and although we haven't actually done anything like a full blown affair its what we are heading for.
I am now having a break from that work to work elsewhere thinking that if i Immerse myself in other work it would be easier for both of us to move on,spent more time with Wife,spend more time with family,fact is its worse,can't get her out of my head and she called yesterday and said the same thing about me,its driving me nuts,even lost my appetite.
We both agreed not to contact each other again but an hour after that conversation she called again and said she wants us to meet up and talk it over,i said its not a good idea because of what would probably follow but said I would sleep on it,7 am this morning she is texting again :cover:,have now turned phone off but all I keep thinking about is her :help:,am quite chuffed though that such a Woman would be interested in me,maybe theres life in the old Dog yet.
Please post some suggestions of how to get her out of my head :help: before I go crazy.