My own religion
It's a problem when we're talking about two different things with the same name, thinking we're talking about the same thing.
The definition I use is the definition generally accepted by modern university philosophy and theology departments, and by atheists themselves.
Decide what we're actually talking about at the outset.
LOL! -- I say "we" because there are several of us in here saying the same thing, and I didn't want to selfishly arrogate all the credit myself.
Okay, we as you and I respectively don't use the same definition, so we are not a we in a sense. I don't see that as a problem, because we have figured out that we use different definitions. Yet we can still communicate and we can agree, that we don't use the same definition.