YOU dont KNOW you arent going to eventually marry them or not.
I never said that you know you arent EVER going to marry them.
If you don't know, why are you having sex? What if the relationship doesn't work out?
And P>S havign sex does NOT equal raising offspring together..
Indeed, for most men these days it equals ditching the woman and letting her raise the offspring, if the birth control fails (or if they were too stupid to use it altogether, which happens, due to a severe lack of sexual education). No wonder there are so many abortions these days D=.
I just dont equate emotionally mature and ready and physically ready for sex with commitment for the REST of your life at 18 or 20 ...or 22 and so on.
I'm not understanding what you're saying. Could you restate it please? It sounds like you're trying to say that emotional maturity and physical maturity are separate, but I'm not sure how that's relevant to the conversation =/.
I don't see how sex is in any way shape or form connected to morality. Can someone please enlighten me?
It's primarily a Christian thing nowadays, but it roots way before that, in Judaism (I'm not sure if any other religion advocates abstinence until marriage or even cares). Basically, sex is the physical (and spiritual) union between man and woman, almost like some kind of metaphorical bond combining the man and woman into one, complete spiritual being under God, or something like that. Naturally, the spiritual union of one's souls with, say, a prostitute sounds unappealing, as prostitution does not involve commitment. Also, more commonly refered to, is the aspect of "saving" oneself for marriage. Since sex is supposed to be this unbreakable bond between man and woman, it's considered wise to only share it with your spouse, and if you have sex before then, you're giving out something that should be reserved for your future spouse.
If you are trying to say that getting married is the solution to abortions..sexually transmitted diseases and suicide you need to do your research.
You missed the point. Some people will kill themselves because they had sex with so and so and thought they had a commitment, then so and so ditched them. That's harder to do in marriage.
Sexually transmitted diseases are transmitted through sex (duh). If everyone only had sex with their spouse, the diseases wouldn't get spread around as quickly.
Married couples are also more prepared for raising children (as opposed to leaving the mother by herself when you find out she's pregnant), thus the need for abortion due to an economic situation should be lowered for some couples.
So if you think about it..YOu are "safest" being single..because if you never get married there is NO chance you will ever be divorced.Which takes you out of that possible risk factor and puts you in the medium risk group.
True. However, if we take away the legal implications of marriage and leave it as only a religious commitment, like it should be, then the divorces will probably go down. Of course, I haven't tested this on human subjects (or lab rats or whatever) or anything, so I don't know. You got any ideas?