yes , by all means have a blast , and the insuing suffering you can endure ,
but then the occasional blast becomes a regular thing , the suffering increases ,
and to drown the suffering you have another blast , and another , and another !
I had a friend like that , first it was a harmless puff of coke , then a little heroin to bring you down , before he knew it he was no longer in control ,
next stop prison , followed by a sence of failure , followed by more heroin , followed by more prison , followed by a worse sence of failure .......
untill he lost all family and friends , and for all I know is now dead ,
end of suffering ?
no not for his mother ,
not for his children ,
not for his friends ,
o.k so that is an extreme ?
but then all extremes start with a harmless little indulgence
and for all we know by now he is dead