Metalic Wings
Active Member
WEll, to start I was going to title this "I'm Proud of Myself"
But I figured that my ego would keep some readers away.
So I guess here's the situation:
My boyfriend recently started talking with this girl online. I could tell that he "liked" her (as a crush, sort of thing) which really bothered me. I could go on about how I technically broke up with him so he could date other girls and within a few hours the two of them were acting all lovey-dovey, but I'll only do that upon request.
Long story short, he's talking with her (I assume) right now. Like, this instant. ON THE PHONE. So he can talk withher "in person" and try to sort everything out.
And really, around 12AM I had set my mind up that at 1AM I would call him up and make sure he was off. But right before I did I got to thinking.
"Maybe I should just trust him. I told him to call me up when he was done, but he's been up since 5AM yesterday morning to get to work and then he watched our son while I went to work and then waited up to talk with this girl so he could sort out all of this confusion and figure out how he really feels about all of it. What if he's already asleep? I would wake him up. What if they're still on the phone? As upset as I would be that they're still talking, he would be mad at me for interrupting and would probably be disappointed that I felt the need to do that."
SO I decided not to. It's not like I won't talk with him tomorrow (or later today,I guess I should say).
But any thoughts? Is this a considerate choice or should I be more adament?
But I figured that my ego would keep some readers away.
So I guess here's the situation:
My boyfriend recently started talking with this girl online. I could tell that he "liked" her (as a crush, sort of thing) which really bothered me. I could go on about how I technically broke up with him so he could date other girls and within a few hours the two of them were acting all lovey-dovey, but I'll only do that upon request.
Long story short, he's talking with her (I assume) right now. Like, this instant. ON THE PHONE. So he can talk withher "in person" and try to sort everything out.
And really, around 12AM I had set my mind up that at 1AM I would call him up and make sure he was off. But right before I did I got to thinking.
"Maybe I should just trust him. I told him to call me up when he was done, but he's been up since 5AM yesterday morning to get to work and then he watched our son while I went to work and then waited up to talk with this girl so he could sort out all of this confusion and figure out how he really feels about all of it. What if he's already asleep? I would wake him up. What if they're still on the phone? As upset as I would be that they're still talking, he would be mad at me for interrupting and would probably be disappointed that I felt the need to do that."
SO I decided not to. It's not like I won't talk with him tomorrow (or later today,I guess I should say).
But any thoughts? Is this a considerate choice or should I be more adament?