I tend to approach the RCC and it's issues the same way I approach my country, the USA.This a fine nice, warm and comfortable approach to the Roman Church, but not in touch with the reality and history of the church.
There are zillions of things about the history and reality of this country that absolutely make me retch. But not only do I hugely appreciate our many strong points and potential for improvement, it's my country. It just is and even if I moved to France or something it will always be my country, warts and all.
Tom