I was in the process of responding when your post popped up. Apart from feeling stabbed,
do you really think it is reasonable for Baha'is to minimize the failings of the first 20 years of the Babi/Baha'i tradition whilst simultaneously playing u,p the failings of other religions dating back centuries? That was the point I was making in response to @Tony Bristow-Stagg. Its not a hugely important point in the overall discussion, but it speaks to bias on the Baha'i side - and since we're talking about learning the "truth" about the Baha'i faith, the question that has to be asked is whether it is appropriate to seek the "truth" about it from an obviously biased and uneven-handed sourced? Anyway...
No - but neither do I find it in many other religious organizations either - not inciting violence and vandalism is not unique to Baha'is. I have not seen the Jehovah's Witnesses, the Arya Samaj or the American Atheists inciting to violence and vandalism either.
Well there's another misconception - if it has a harmful effect on people within the Baha'i faith, it has a harmful effect on society. But the broader harm is that the notion of exclusive revelation is deleterious to human progress...it shows in the Baha'i approach to homosexuality and gender/sexual equality...the faith (based on revelation) is out of step with societal progress and with revelation as the bedrock of moral reasoning, that can only get worse as time goes on. Bahai's are not the only religion in the "quaintly anachronistic" category, but eventually such religions are doomed to irrelevance - and in the meantime, their adherents are pushed, by their own traditions, to the margins of society (think Amish or Mennonite). I don't think that's healthy and in the worst cases, the out-of-step traditions simply cannot co-exist with modern society at all - and sometimes that's worse than harmful - its disastrous - i'm sure that's not going to happen to the Baha'i religion, I'm extrapolating again - but even if its not that terribly harmful its certainly not helpful to society to have sub-groups with monstrously anachronistic moral standards - and that is what becomes of revealed religions.