Well, apparently you actually do assume this is all do. You have me right now. Guilty as charged. My car is in another state and the town I'm stuck in for the time being is tiny and everyone I know here is in there "summer state." But a sample of those "didn't you have better things to do" things I did include graduating college, professional work experience, articles and stories published, art on display in a gallery, recording bass in a couple demos, acted in plays, travel around continental US, gained tons of personal insight and growth, grown away from the dumb-teen phase I was in, quit drinking to drunkenness, learned how to make simple robots, learned how to repair and enhance electronic devices, achieved a solid a "base conversational level" of German (I need more German speakers to get better), read a ton of books, moved to another state, found new hobbies, fishing and hiking, and lots of finger food dive-in buffets of fish fries and crawdad boils enjoyed with friends.
I say with confidence I have grown significantly, learned a great deal, and have been rather productive with life, fulfilling it, and achieving goals.
So, what have YOU done over the past 14 years? And did you do despite having "head-to-toe" illnesses and pains and being medically needy? A did you also do awesome things with your life while having at least give surgeries and spending a significant chunk of it on crutches and canes? Have you had to put in tremendous effort into training yourself to overcome an impairment that even makes it difficult to get a job? Have you been doing your thing and staying employed while having a doctors recommendation for disabilities in one hand?
So, do tell, what marvelous things have you been up to?