You've basically just confirmed what I said. You voice support for sexist gender roles and repression of sexuality, especially female sexuality, and also admit to the fear of the effect of female sexuality on men. So, um, thanks for proving my point?
LOL, maybe if you revert back to Catholicism again you will appreciate that it wasn't what "I" said at all...it was what the Bible said.
It is the Creator who set the respective roles of men and women. You can argue with him about it if you like, but I wouldn't hold my breath waiting for him to agree with you.
Perhaps your present god is lying to you again? He hasn't got a great reputation for telling the truth you know.