I'm all for "seeing a kid thru university" if they finish a four year degree in four years - and if they are willing to step up to the plate as an ADULT living with other ADULTS - and carry their share of the weight of a household. Do something to earn some money, pay for your own gas and food and some household expenses - wash and fold your own laundry for heavens' sake, and VOLUNTEER to help your parents out, rather than the other way around, once in awhile.
One thing that sticks out at me is the recurring mantra about "not knowing what one wants to do," and "unappealing jobs" and "wanting a fulfilling career."
What? Who told you work is fun? Do you honestly think that your parents get up every day saying, "Woohoooo! Today I get to fight some traffic, go hang out with people for 8-9 hours today that I really don't love like I do my friends and family, do a job that isn't sexy or particularly exciting, then fight traffic coming home, divide my couple of free hours up between 3 other people who are vying for my last ounce of energy, scrounge something up for dinner, fold laundry while I'm reviewing a homework assigment, wash the dishes because no one else offers to, fall asleep on the sofa during the evening news - and then I get to get up and do it all again tomorrow."
Sure it's great if work is exciting, fulfilling, dynamic, creative - whatever. But even the most interesting jobs are largely filled with tedium. Jobs are not entertainment. Jobs are utilitarian.
Get your head around that. And then get off your *** and get to work.
Everybody's livin' for the weekend.