Alceste
Vagabond
So..... everyone has to agree with your view completely or else they're bigots?
Marriage equality was NEVER about forcing churches to marry same-sex couples if they didn't want to. It's about securing the same legal rights for same-sex couples as hetero-couples. But statements like that above reinforce the idea that marriage equality advocates want to impose their beliefs on everyone else.
I don't think so - I think it's worth considering whether the desire for one's church to discriminate against same sex couples comes from exactly the same place as the desire for one's state or federal government to discriminate against same sex couples. It may be a weaker version of the same sentiment, but it isn't an entirely different sentiment, is it?
However, allowing people to limit the impact of their antipathy toward homosexuals to the confines of their religious practice is a win-win situation for everybody, so I don't object to it. Same sex couples are not likely to belong to a church that considers their relationship less sacred than opposite couples anyway, and there are other churches that don't discriminate they (and their friends and families) could belong to if they chose, which will swell the membership of these churches (to the detriment of less liberal churches.)
What do you think is the difference between not wanting your church to sanctify the covenant of marriage between two people of the same sex and not wanting the state to do so?