I think it's amusing. A very serious historical film that largely ignored the input of the many women both involved in the project as scientists and those in Oppenheimer's life, stationing them as mere windowdressing and emotional impact vectors than actual people. Pretty typical for Nolan, who is notoriously terrible at writing women characters.
The movie is still quite good, otherwise, but when juxtaposed against the Barbie movie as a different type of commentary...
Barbie a satire, with commentary about societal pressures of gender conformity dressed up in hyper consumerism where conformity pressures are at their greatest, including of course movie consumerism.
But your milage may vary.