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Meow Mix

Chatte Féministe
I once worked with a chap who quite genuinely insisted he went to a gay bar, met 2 lesbians, had a threesome and turned them both straight.

Is it more likely that:

a) he was lying
b) he was lying and is also a massive ****

Actually that's not the question as the answer is obviously B, but do you ever meet men who actually believe the sheer force of their masculine virility will change your sexual preference?

Oh yeah. This sort of thing exists. Someone else asked "how do you tell men that hit on you that you're a lesbian," and the answer is I usually don't for this exact reason. Some men take it as a "okay time to try harder then" signal. (Good men are satisfied with a "no" at least).
 

England my lionheart

Rockerjahili Rebel
Premium Member
It is different taking a bra off someone else than it is taking one off of yourself, haha, so yes, I've had a struggle or two in my lifetime. I did remove a front clasp with my teeth once. Proud of that one.

Way to go I’d say,imagine what a nightmare it would have been in the 16th century, lol
 

Meow Mix

Chatte Féministe
What do you wish heteros knew but generally don't?

You know, this question gave me the most pause. And I think that's a good thing, because I can't think of anything important that "most" hetero people need to know. It's just minorities of jerks with misconceptions that I would want to know anything. That seems like an answer in itself: things are getting better to the point that I'm only worried about minorities of ignorant people.
 

Meow Mix

Chatte Féministe
She was having trouble figuring out how physiological sex response A (say tingles) work with opposite sex but not same sex.

Our biology reacts differently based on the sex of the person and not our physiology is the gist.

Ah yeah. Well, I'd still have said it's just a brute fact sort of thing. I get aroused by women and not men, there is no reason any more than liking dark chocolate but not tomato sauce. I guess. Haha!
 

Meow Mix

Chatte Féministe
This is weird for me to say, but I have been told that I have one, but am not sure exactly what that means.

I do too, but I work out and tone like crazy with barre and yoga.

Heart-shaped is usually with a lil thigh gap and a shape like this:

appla.jpg
 

Meow Mix

Chatte Féministe
A couple of lesbian friends have told me that one advantage to their friendships with men who acknowledge LGBT people is that there is no doubt whatsoever that the friendship is platonic and no possibility of developing feelings for their friends, and vice versa

Do you share this sentiment? I think it makes sense, myself, and this specific advantage can make some things less awkward in certain friendships. :D

Maybe? I've had acquaintances that crossed lines that I either no longer know or that grew significantly as people after that (to even still be in my life).

Conversely I have girl friends (straight, bi, and lesbian) for whom there is no doubt whatsoever that the friendship is platonic. I think this is all dependent on the person.
 

9-10ths_Penguin

1/10 Subway Stalinist
Premium Member
I notice hip/waiste ratio too. Face structure and eyes are next big one (I'm attracted to feminine bodies and faces, not so much masculine women). I prefer women around the same height. Breast shape is more important than breast size, but I do check em out, and there's such a thing as too much. I like a good heart shaped booty.
Do you find yourself attractive?
 

Meow Mix

Chatte Féministe
Maybe ugly is the wrong word.
As a guy I just can't understand how anyone could be attracted to guys.

I mean I think that's just what it's like to have an orientation basically. I feel the same way. I don't think guys are ugly, they can be very aesthetically pleasing, just not physically attractive. I'm like "but have you seen women?"
 

Wildswanderer

Veteran Member
I mean I think that's just what it's like to have an orientation basically. I feel the same way. I don't think guys are ugly, they can be very aesthetically pleasing, just not physically attractive. I'm like "but have you seen women?"
Well, woman got all the good stuff, but I'm grateful my wife found me attractive.
 

Dan From Smithville

Monsters! Monsters from the id! Forbidden Planet
Staff member
Premium Member
I mean I think that's just what it's like to have an orientation basically. I feel the same way. I don't think guys are ugly, they can be very aesthetically pleasing, just not physically attractive. I'm like "but have you seen women?"
I'm with you on that last part. You all got it going on.
 
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