Ask a lesbian

[viole]

Well, as far as I know I’m the only one here.

Plus I’m going to bed after night shift and need something to laugh at in the “morning” (afternoon).

Ask whatever you will

Is there any male, in real life or fiction, that you might consider as an exception?
I ask because I am totally heterosexual, but I think there would be a couple of girls I would probably make an exception for.

If you know what I mean with "exception", which I am sure you do.

Ciao

- viole

 

[Stevicus]

A what?
She didn't say bisexual so I assumed she isn't attracted to men.

Not being attracted to someone isn't the same thing as dislike. One doesn't have anything to do with the other. It's possible to dislike someone yet still be attracted to them.

 

[It Aint Necessarily So]

Maybe you can help me recall the name of a term described to me by a lesbian couple at the dog park. She said it refers to how often and quickly lesbian relationships become asexual.

Never mind - I just stumbled onto it by chance. I leave this here and ask you to comment on this phenomenon if you like. The link addresses the phenomenon, but perhaps you can add some insight into why this phenomenon should affect this demographic more than others: Lesbian bed death - Wikipedia

 

[England my lionheart]

Did you,like many men,get baffled by undoining a bra at the back when it was a front loader?.

 

[Vinayaka]

Do men hit on you, and if so, how do you tell them that deep dark secret?

 

[Terrywoodenpic]

A what?
She didn't say bisexual so I assumed she isn't attracted to men.

There is a massive difference between liking men and fancying men.
A lesbian could have a male best friend but hate the idea of going to bed with him.

 

[ADigitalArtist]

Are you a hummus fan?
*Disclaimer, some non-pg language about sex*

 

[Wildswanderer]

There is a massive difference between liking men and fancying men.
A lesbian could have a male best friend but hate the idea of going to bed with him.

Well, I meant the really liking kind of liking.
Not the best buddy kind.
I know we are ugly and all, but most women don't seem to think so.

 

[Shadow Wolf]

Coffee or tea?

 

[Meow Mix]

Does your kind do Shakespeare or Andrew Lloyd Weber?

Is stage acting still relevant?

Hmm, well I’ve seen more Shakespeare probably. I guess. Haha

 

[Meow Mix]

What does Modern Lesbian Milk taste like?

I… can only assume this is milk from the Greek island? What is this lmao

 

[Meow Mix]

Oh, so many questions...

That’s what this thread’s here for!

 

[Meow Mix]

Do you have U-Haul on your list of contacts?

They stopped taking my messages long ago… ^.^

 

[Meow Mix]

What is the meaning of life?

To crush your enemies, to see them driven before you, and to hear the lamentation of their women.

Oh I thought you asked what was best in life.

42, then

 

[Meow Mix]

Do you pay your subscription annually or monthly?

Monthly, because it goes up when you get the U-haul

 

[Meow Mix]

Lesbian preferences....
Automatic or stick?
Star Trek or Star Wars?
Anchovies or pepperoni?
Whole wheat or white bread?

Well this gives a sample size of one.

Manual actually, it feels more like driving.

Both, because there’s no comparison: one is a space opera with space wizards for fun, the other is a vision of humanity’s potential.

Pepperoni but I do actually like anchovies, they’re like salty lil mushrooms.

Gimme dat wheat bread!

 

[Augustus]

Ask whatever you will

I once worked with a chap who quite genuinely insisted he went to a gay bar, met 2 lesbians, had a threesome and turned them both straight.

Is it more likely that:

a) he was lying
b) he was lying and is also a massive ****

Actually that's not the question as the answer is obviously B, but do you ever meet men who actually believe the sheer force of their masculine virility will change your sexual preference?

 

[Unveiled Artist]

Honestly, I do not see you as "Lesbian" or "not Lesbian" I see you as a human being, so I kind of do not have any specific question because you add the label "Lesbian"

You are just a sweet loving human being to me.

With that I'd say for me I use "I am a gay woman." It says that attraction (physical or not) is a part of being human but it's used as an adjective to describe a part of myself than a noun to define me.

Aka:
I'm a gay person. I'm a creative person. I'm a expressive person.

But I'm not defined by my attraction so I don't identify as a lesbian...

Bouncing my thoughts to the OP from your comment

 

[Meow Mix]

I'm lesbian.

Ooo I didn't know!

Don't know what to ask other than, hmm.. I had a question posed to me from a hardcore religious person in person. She was curious and serious and asked how a girl can have physiological attraction with another girl. Somewhat assuming our biology can morally identify the sex(s) of others.

She moved though. If you were me how would you genuinely answer the question?

(She had just became JW when met so that was a barrier in itself)

Hmm, it seems like a "brute fact" sort of question. Why are we physiologically attracted to women? Well, why do I like cheese, and why do I not like hot spicy foods? It seems like it's just some kind of brute fact about how our bodies and preferences respond to stimuli. I can't control that I don't like hot spicy foods, I can't control that I find women attractive in the same way.

I would say that I do not know what she meant by "our biology can morally identify the sex of others," I don't know what morality has to do with it per se.

 

[MonkeyFire]

Lesbians FTW!!!