Questions
oes God really need anyone serving Him? Has God ever showed up at your door and said: Serve me, or Follow me, or do not have fun, or do not party, or do not eat or even do not have sex?
It's not going to happen!!
God will never intimidate or coerce your choices as religion has done so often.
Contrary to popular belief, this physical world has not been created for God. God created this physical universe for us. It's time-based causal nature is perfect for learning.
Free will is an important part of the learning process. If you limit choices, one will choose the opposite as soon as they are free to choose just to Discover what they are missing.
Do not limit yourself. Venture out and Discover for yourself what the best choices really are. When you really Understand all sides, intelligence will make the best choices. The bad choices will no longer be viable choices you could make. It will no longer be hard.
We were never meant to never have fun, never have sex, never laugh and enjoy the diversity of interacting with others, never enjoy food or even never dance.
This reminds me of a story. A good lady friend and I were going to give to feeding hungry people. WE both brought out items the next day. I gave beans. She gave coffee. I could not believe it. I asked her how could you give coffee? We are trying to keep these people alive. Her answer not only surprised me but really gave me a different view. She said she gave them something for their soul. She knows how nice a cup of warm coffee can be.
In short, a person is more than following and restricting their lives. We are all meant to soar. Smell the roses. Great things are around us all. They are meant to be enjoyed.
Be who you must! It's a part of the plan!! I'm not worried. You will in time Discover the best choices and what choices do not bring good results. Lead with that intellect and your results will always be outstanding.
That's what I see. It's very clear!!