My mom was raised Greek Orthodox, my dad was Anglican (Church of England). Their roots were in Rochester, NY. So I am guessing you were not raised in Western WA State.
Oh actually I live now not far from where I was raised. I've tried living in other states but this place keeps drawing me back. I love these old woods.
Greek Orthodox and Anglican are pretty different for sure. Definitely seems more east coast in origin. Were your parents from the old world or were they born in the states?
I am sure there is a lot of volunteer work you can do, and I would not think you would have to be a member of the Church.
Don't dismantle the excuses I tell myself!
For me, I do more things on the side when I hold myself accountable, and it's easier to do that when I'm part of a community. I suppose it isn't necessary, as I've still done volunteer stuff without it, but it might be better for me. Not sure yet! I haven't been a part of a community like that since I left Christianity a few years back. It'd be interesting to see how it'll effect my life.
There is really a lot more to the Baha'i Faith than I ever knew when I joined but I know a lot more now mostly because of having conversed on forums, fielding questions and discussing it with others, which forced me to have to read for myself so I could discuss my beliefs. I am not good at doing things just for myself, but I will do anything for others, anything within my capacity.
I much prefer to engage in dialogues with people of different religions and atheists because I learn so much and it is more interesting than having discussions with those who share my beliefs. There is a lot I like about Christianity but I could not be a Christian because it is too exclusive. I could never be any religion that does not recognize all the major religions as true which is why I could only be a Baha'i.
I was always raised with the idea that there could only be one true religion. The idea that they all are cultural expressions reaching up and trying to interpret the divine is interesting to me. It's a beautiful idea. I explored similar ideas found in Deism years back, though in the end it wasn't for me. Still, it's something I admire.
Talking to so many atheists has helped me to understand why they do not believe in God but it has not caused me to question that God exists. But I do understand why some things that believers believe about God are questionable, such as God being All-Loving. Not so much on this forum, but on other forums an All-Good God is called into question by atheists because of all the suffering in the world. I am on the same page with atheists on this, but because of Baha'u'llah cannot
not believe in God and that God is good (I say that with glib tongue in cheek.
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I continue to struggle with some of what is attributed to God in various scriptures and will probably do so for the remainder of my life. For me, a belief has to make logical sense if I am going to believe it, and all the suffering as well as the fact that suffering is so unevenly distributed, does not make complete sense to me. I understand what my religion teaches about that and I accept the reasons for suffering to a certain extent, but not fully, so God is kind of in the dog house.
Hmmm. Suffering is a hard topic. Buddhism comments a lot on it's existance and how to deal with and rise above it. Zoroastrianism has an awesome approach to doing the right thing, and that good actions are required to overpower evil in the world. What is the Bahaii concept of evil and darkness? Any devil figure that's seen like in Abrahamic faiths?
As for me, I always loved the modern Heathen approach to pain and suffering. It's simply an aspect of reality. It's something to conquer, even if it is a hopeless fight. It isn't about accepting and succumbing to one's fate, but to take that fate and to fight to the bitter end, tooth and nail.
It's hard for me to imagine an all "good" god, as our concept of what is good or not relies entirely on our own self interest, and how we empathize with other things according to the social constructs that we frame the world in. We put everything we can see and know inside of a box and try to categorize it according to the way we understand things.
If gods surely exists, then nature is the canvas they paint on. To me, that would be the reflection of a god's inner being. Suffering, pain, and death would be part of that painting. So would comfort, joy, and life. I don't see those negatives as a bad thing personally, nor are they good. They just are, and they exist independant of what we feel is right or wrong. We give them the identity of being right or wrong, they aren't innately that way.
Though it isn't a nice neat concept that brings comfort that everything ends well, it's honest. We aren't the center of the universe, and we don't know half as much as we'd like to think. That doesn't mean we shouldn't try, though.
There is still time as you are so young...
My first degrees were a BA and an MA in Geography and that is what I have used for my career. I made the decision to go back to school and get a second MA in Psychology in my late 30s but I did not get my degree till I was 44 years old. Then I went to a School of Homeopathy and got another degree three years later. But I never used either degree for a career. I stayed with my original career as a GIS Cartographer and I will retire out of that career.
Yup! Not gonna squander my time. I just wish I was wiser about the way I spent my money when I was younger. Oh well, the past is in the past, and now is the time.