charlie sc
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From what you said to me, as convoluted as it is, and correct me if I'm wrong, gay sex is a sin in the eyes of god and will be punished accordingly by god.For me, within my belief system, it is.
For those who do not share my belief system?
That depends entirely on what THEIR belief system teaches.
I just don't see why I should have to change MY belief system...or that the belief system itself should change, to make others happy. If you don't like it, find a belief system that agrees with you and be happy.
Either way, I'm not responsible for your (again, general 'you,') happiness or sense of 'sinfulness.'
I do believe that my belief system is right, of course. If I didn't, I'd find another belief system and then I'd think that THAT one was right. I would hope that this is true for everybody, because any other approach is the sheerest hypocrisy.
I believe that my belief system is right. I do not expect those who do not share it to abide by its rules, however.
I don't know how much you know about the LDS...but we have something called the '12 Articles of Faith.' They are a pretty solid statement of our basic beliefs, and unique among (at least, I have never found anything similar anywhere else) is the following statement:
Articles of Faith,
#11: “We claim the privilege of worshiping Almighty God according to the dictates of our own conscience, and allow all men the same privilege, let them worship how, where, or what they may.”
Freedom of religion. Freedom of belief. Freedom of conscience.
We WILL try to convert you, but never at the point of a gun....or law. Indeed, the only time the church got involved in LAWS about this issue was the California Prop 8 campaign, where the church was attempting to defend itself against others forcing THEIR religious views upon US.
The church, after all not only did not object to, but was supportive of, the California provisions that gave gay couples every single right that heterosexual married couples had. It was only when the gays (and (i do remember this very well) decided that they were going to force us to recognize gay marriage IN OUR RELIGION and IN OUR TEMPLES that it balked. And yes, that IS what they wanted to do. I had many conversations with gay activists who came out and said precisely that.
And isn't that what THIS conversation is all about? You are doing the same thing here. You aren't content with me baking gay wedding cakes, photographing gay weddings, seeing gay marriages AS marriages legally. You aren't happy with my saying that gay marriages aren't 'sinful' if the participants don't honestly see them as sinful. You are insisting that I absolve you of sin AS A MORMON....even when you aren't a Mormon, will never be a Mormon, and don't agree with our beliefs.
Please read that Article of Faith one more time. Yes, the second half of it is vital; 'allow all men the same privilege, let them worship how, where or what they may."
Pay attention to the first half, as well. WE CLAIM THE PRIVILEGE OF WORSHIPING ALMIGHTY GOD ACCORDING TO THE DICTATES OF OUR OWN CONSCIENCE..."
You go be sinful...or not...according to your conscience. That is your right and your privilege. you do NOT have the right to insist that we follow YOUR rules within OUR belief system.
As in...get over yourselves. Go. Be happy. I don't HAVE to approve of your lifestyle. Only you do. Should you decide to convert to the CoJCoLDS, THEN you would have a problem, but as long as you aren't LDS, I don't see where any of you have the right to tell me that I have a 'sense of entitlement' because I would be sinning if I had sex with a man outside marriage bonds, and am not tempted to have sex with a woman outside those bonds.
What a bunch of absolute claptrap.
Reading your reply, I thought you were a moral relativist Christian, which would be weird, but after deciphering it a bit, I see you're still a moral absolutest, but more progressive and tolerant. Anyway...
I haven't checked further research into the linked study, but let's prima facie take it as fact and substantiated. Accordingly, people who outspokenly oppose homosexuality are more likely to be gay themselves and are aroused by homosexual acts. You understand this creates a massive conflict of interest? A straight person is not interested in these acts, whereas, a homosexual is. Assuming gay sex is an actual sin, when the closest homosexuals create stigmas and bad attitudes towards homosexuality and gay sex, they make the situation worse. If they are having issues with these desires, they should deal with it themselves and definitely not inflict suffering on others. I can think of numerous analogies where one's own problems are projected onto others and societal problems arise. Therefore, do you not think the best course of action is let homosexuals get married and do what they choose within the privacy of their own home? Why would a straight person care?