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Remember when Prop 8 backers said they wouldn't target existing marriages?

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Smoke

Done here.
Civil unions would be better then what we have now. I am not voting anymore, that does it. I would encourage all gays and lesbians to boycott voting with me, and anyone who supports us.

I'm seriously considering giving up voting, too. Not because I think a boycott will accomplish anything, but because I'm having trouble seeing the point of voting. Alternately, I may start voting for Green candidates, no matter how incompetent and addle-brained they may be, just to register my disapproval of the major parties.
 

Smoke

Done here.
(besides, if you think being gay in America is tough, imagine being trans)
Don't put it in a small font. Say it out loud.
I think Barney Frank learned his lesson about trans issues, but what a ******* shame he didn't know it on his own.
 

TheKnight

Guardian of Life
No it's not. Not to anybody who gives a damn about freedom and equality.

It matters when you consider more than just one group's opinion. The question that must be considered is: If I and a group of like-minded people decide to settle down somewhere and start a community where gays are denied certain rights and a gay/lesbian person decides he/she wants to live smackdab in the middle of our community. Does he/she have a right to complain about our rules?

That all depends on a lot of things. Do we own the land? If so, what higher authority than us can say what we can do on the land? Suppose we're in a country where we're allowed to have a say in the laws that are made? Should our opinion be ignored because of this one person who wants to live in our community? Suppose it's not just one person, but a group of gay/lesbian people that want to live in our little community, but don't like the rules we set?

Personally, I believe in the will of the individual. And I think that the common will of a group of individuals should always trump the will of one single individual. And in the case of one group of individuals vs another group, the deciding factor is numbers (or firepower).

I see the situation like this:

There is a Community named A. In Community A all the people agree that they do not wish to have anyone in Community A that openly participates in homosexual sex acts. Little Timmy is born in Community A and it just so happens that Little Timmy is gay. Little Timmy is caught having sex with another boy born in Community A named Logan. Timmy and Logan are brought before the Community A court and they are found guilty of participation in homosexual sex acts. Their options are to leave Community A, to agree to cease the homosexual acts, or to face more violent consequences (death).

I believe that, regardless of my personal feelings about whether or not Timmy and Logan should be allowed to love freely (which I certainly support), Community A has the full right to expel Timmy and Logan, order them to cease, or (if necessary) sentence them to death. However, I would also agree that if Timmy and Logan really felt it necessary to stand up for themselves, it is fully within their rights to use any means necessary to fight against Community A in order to affect change.

I do not believe there should be any institutionalized detraction of the rights of the people in Community A to live in a community that defines its own standards, and I also do not believe that Logan and Timmy should be forced to abide by Community A's standards. The options are either fighting, or compromise. And I think both options are reasonable (depending on the issue).

In the case of homosexual marriage. If the majority (52%) of citizens in a certain state (like California) agree that homosexual marriage should remain prohibited, then it is their right to enforce that standard by any means (as a group of people wanting to live in a community with its own standards). However, I also believe that if the 48% of people who disagree are willing to fight for their opinion of what is best for the community and the standards it should have, then they have every right to do so by whatever means.


I would not, in any sense, call it injustice if Community A wins and Timmy and Logan end up dead. Neither would I call it injustice if Timmy and Logan win and change community A.

Tragic? Certainly. But I see no other fair way of maintaining the rights of both sides.
 

The Voice of Reason

Doctor of Thinkology
Tragic? Certainly. But I see no other fair way of maintaining the rights of both sides.

The tragedy is that anyone honestly thinks that the right of someone to discriminate against people based on race, religion, or sexual orientation has as much weight as the Constitutional rights of another person.
 

TheKnight

Guardian of Life
Knight, I know this was an example but...holy cow...what's with the death sentence part?!

I think a community has the right to impose a death penalty on those who actively and purposefully act against the standards of the community if the person does the acts within the community and refuses to do them in private or outside of the community.

The tragedy is that anyone honestly thinks that the right of someone to discriminate against people based on race, religion, or sexual orientation has as much weight as the Constitutional rights of another person.

Everyone has standards. You draw a line at race, religion, and sexual orientation as far as what can be enforced as a standard. I don't. If you can make a good argument as to why a community of like-minded people shouldn't be able to make standards based on race, religion, or sexuality for their community and enforce those standards then please do so. I would love to hear a logical argument to the contrary of my own. Weren't you the one who said that a person doesn't have rights outside of those the law gives them(in another thread)?
 

The Voice of Reason

Doctor of Thinkology
If you can make a good argument as to why a community of like-minded people shouldn't be able to make standards based on race, religion, or sexuality for their community and enforce those standards then please do so. I would love to hear a logical argument to the contrary of my own. Weren't you the one who said that a person doesn't have rights outside of those the law gives them(in another thread)?
Okay, I'll try to walk you through this one.

Let's say you and I live in a town of 300 people, and we are all like minded. We collectively decide that we want to subjugate all women, and force them to stay in the kitchen. Do we have the right to impose such a system? Remember, the 300 of us own all of the property in our town.

Side note - in the example, you need to keep in mind that our town lies completely within the borders of the US. Does the Constitution trump our "rights" of self determination?

Does the will of the majority of the national voting populace have any weight in our town? Can we enact slavery, if we so choose? How about pedophilia? Why not?
 

TheKnight

Guardian of Life
Okay, I'll try to walk you through this one.

Let's say you and I live in a town of 300 people, and we are all like minded. We collectively decide that we want to subjugate all women, and force them to stay in the kitchen. Do we have the right to impose such a system? Remember, the 300 of us own all of the property in our town.
Do the women in the town agree with it? We're not all like minded if the women disagree are we?

Side note - in the example, you need to keep in mind that our town lies completely within the borders of the US. Does the Constitution trump our "rights" of self determination?
This is interesting. So in my Community A example, the community established the standard before Logan and Timmy were born (in other words Logan and Timmy didn't agree directly agree to it). Do Timmy and Logan have to live by the standard? YES! Unless they are willing to leave, fight against the standard, or win public opinion to change the standard.

So extrapolate that to the US. Should we, born in the US, have to abide by the Constitution (that we didn't directly accept)? Yes, definitely (peaceful compliance being a sign that we accept it). Unless or until, we either 1. Fight against the Constitution (and therefore the government) through force 2. Leave the US or 3. (and I admit I didn't put this in my Community A example) if the majority of the people decide the Constitution is no longer relevant.

Keep in mind. The Constitution is not divine. Personally, I think that people on both sides of the debate value the Constitution. However, both sides have different ways of looking at how it should be applied (and both sides of the marriage debate make good arguments for their positions--personally I support gay marriage since I've been educated more on the matter).

Does the will of the majority of the national voting populace have any weight in our town? Can we enact slavery, if we so choose? How about pedophilia? Why not?
As I said, when it comes to the will of one group vs the will of another, the majority group wins (or the group with more firepower does).

In other words, if the majority of Americans decide they don't want the Constitution anymore, and go on to have it changed and amended to reflect that, they have every right afterwards to ignore the Constitution. I think you'd find our founding fathers would agree.

The Constitution wasn't meant to last an eternity. It was meant to last for as long as the will of the people supported it. If the will of the people changes (or you have a schism like we currently face) then the majority opinion decides. Or else a war is necessary to settle the matter (something that writers like Paine and Franklin wrote about).

As a document, the Constitution was meant as an expression of the will of the people ("We the People"). If the People don't support it anymore, the founding fathers would be among the first to fight for the right of the people to give consent in their governance to a governing body. Even if that means a revolution (like the one the founding fathers fought).

As I said, I don't think it's that serious. Both pro and anti gay marriage people support the Constitution (so I believe). The difference is our opinion on how it should be applied.
 
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KatNotKathy

Well-Known Member
I think a community has the right to impose a death penalty on those who actively and purposefully act against the standards of the community if the person does the acts within the community and refuses to do them in private or outside of the community.

So it's totally fine that being gay is punishable by death in Sudan? That's sick.
 

Shadow Wolf

Certified People sTabber
I think a community has the right to impose a death penalty on those who actively and purposefully act against the standards of the community if the person does the acts within the community and refuses to do them in private or outside of the community.
So when someone is killed for being gay, as long as it goes against that societies norms, is ok? What about when blacks fought for equality? What us pierced and tattooed weirdos? If society wants to kill us because getting piercings and tattoos isn't fully accepted yet, would that too be ok?
 

KatNotKathy

Well-Known Member
Do the women in the town agree with it? We're not all like minded if the women disagree are we?
The women are a minority and thus have no rights. Certainly it would be fine if all the men got together and ruled that being a woman was punishable by death if they're in the majority.
 

*Anne*

Bliss Ninny
I think a community has the right to impose a death penalty on those who actively and purposefully act against the standards of the community if the person does the acts within the community and refuses to do them in private or outside of the community.
But for a nonviolent act?!

You'll have to forgive me here, but after reading about the hanging of gay people in Iran, the stoning of adulterers in another thread, and now this...I'm startin' to get a little creeped out. It amazes me how casual people are about this.
 

Rainbow Mage

Lib Democrat/Agnostic/Epicurean-ish/Buddhist-ish
But for a nonviolent act?!

You'll have to forgive me here, but after reading about the hanging of gay people in Iran, the stoning of adulterers in another thread, and now this...I'm startin' to get a little creeped out. It amazes me how casual people are about this.

I've been amazed, but it just goes to show how much they hate gay people. I don't want them to keep it quiet. I'd rather them be their true hateful selves, because then at least they're being honest.
 

MysticSang'ha

Big Squishy Hugger
Premium Member
But for a nonviolent act?!

You'll have to forgive me here, but after reading about the hanging of gay people in Iran, the stoning of adulterers in another thread, and now this...I'm startin' to get a little creeped out. It amazes me how casual people are about this.

They're casual about it because "they" would never see themselves upsetting the community around them. "They" consider themselves "righteous." How dare we for being different, loving differently, and believing differently.

A truly egalitarian and diverse community takes hard work, selfless compassion, and wisdom in order to be successful. It saddens me seeing that there are people who really don't want to transcend the tribal-homogenous instinct.
 

TheKnight

Guardian of Life
So it's totally fine that being gay is punishable by death in Sudan? That's sick.

I prefer not to let things like faulty emotional appeals have a part in my logical decision making process.

Besides, punishable by death does not mean kill them all. I think they should be allowed an opportunity to leave the Sudan if they choose to do so.

So when someone is killed for being gay, as long as it goes against that societies norms, is ok? What about when blacks fought for equality? What us pierced and tattooed weirdos? If society wants to kill us because getting piercings and tattoos isn't fully accepted yet, would that too be ok?

OK, let me make it clear. I am not saying that it is OK to simply kill those who go against society's norms. What I am saying is that I don't see a problem with that as a last resort.

You have a case of a society that does not accept homosexuality. The society should then offer the person the options to: A. not do it anymore B. not do it in such a way that anyone knows about it C. leave the society D. be put to death.

I do believe the person would have the right to fight against the society with force if they felt it necessary.


The women are a minority and thus have no rights. Certainly it would be fine if all the men got together and ruled that being a woman was punishable by death if they're in the majority.

I wasn't talking to you. And in his example he said they all agreed, which implies that the women did too. Otherwise they didn't all agree. And women usually tend to outnumber men. Which is why I asked for clarification.

If what you're doing is seeking to provide clarification, then with the parameters you offered I believe the women would have the 4 options I offered above.

But for a nonviolent act?!
Violence isn't the point. The point is a willful display of defiance to the rule of law.

Maybe you don't, but I believe in the rule of the law above an individual's right to what they want (I believe this because the rule of the law is the collective will of the individuals in a community, or at least the majority of individuals).


You'll have to forgive me here, but after reading about the hanging of gay people in Iran, the stoning of adulterers in another thread, and now this...I'm startin' to get a little creeped out. It amazes me how casual people are about this.

You're getting creeped out because all you're reading is that I think it's OK for a society to put people to death under certain circumstances that you don't agree with. You're not looking at my whole argument.

I do not advocate a bloodthirsty society that puts people to death willy nilly because the leaders don't like it. I'm advocating that a society has a right to set standards and enforce them. Regardless of what the standard is.

I've been amazed, but it just goes to show how much they hate gay people. I don't want them to keep it quiet. I'd rather them be their true hateful selves, because then at least they're being honest.

The fact that I disagree with your position doesn't mean I hate gay people. I am far from hatred of gays. I support gay marriage (as of late), and I support the full and equal rights of gay people.

My point is that I also believe and accept that if the majority disagrees, then I, as a minority in a larger society where I want peace to be maintained, will submit to that. For the sake of peace in the community.

To me, peace and preservation of life is more valuable than anyone's right to do anything. Regardless of how badly the rights are being violated. I would only advocate violence in the instance of someone who outright and resolutely threatens peace, or someone who is seeking to take innocent lives recklessly.
 

TheKnight

Guardian of Life
They're casual about it because "they" would never see themselves upsetting the community around them..

If I broke the standards of the community I lived in, I would accept the punishment. Part of being a good citizen is accepting the legal consequences of my actions when I knew the consequences before I did the act and did it anyways.
 

KatNotKathy

Well-Known Member
Yeah, those stupid Jews should have never been so Jewish in 1930s-era Germany. The holocaust was totally justified, well done.
 

KatNotKathy

Well-Known Member
If I broke the standards of the community I lived in, I would accept the punishment. Part of being a good citizen is accepting the legal consequences of my actions when I knew the consequences before I did the act and did it anyways.

See, those jews, gays, and romani should have all just been good citizens and accepted genocide.
 

Magic Man

Reaper of Conversation
OK, let me make it clear. I am not saying that it is OK to simply kill those who go against society's norms. What I am saying is that I don't see a problem with that as a last resort.

The problem is that you're saying that, even as a last resort, it's OK to use the death penalty for people who participate in homosexual acts. It's simply not OK to do that at all. I understand your point about living within the rules of the society you're in, and that's fine if you're not talking about something inherent like sexuality, race, ethnicity or gender. If a rule is no public displays of affection by anyone, that's one thing, but to say that you just can't be gay, that's just not an acceptable rule.

You have a case of a society that does not accept homosexuality. The society should then offer the person the options to: A. not do it anymore B. not do it in such a way that anyone knows about it C. leave the society D. be put to death.

No, the society should either put itself to death or move out of bigotry.
 
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