Ozzie
Well-Known Member
In the absence of a flashbulb moment in my life when I've been illuminated to the existence of an afterlife I have to conclude I'm an atheist.
On the other hand, I have one dead parent. Her ashes are separated, half going on a journey with my step-father to I do not know where, the other half being kept in my immediate family. No decision was made on my mother's death to a permanent memorial. In fact the ashes were kept at the funeral parlor for months after her service. One of my sisters Picked up these ashes last year.
Both of my sisters (I have two)appear happy to harbor the ashes in their homes in what I assume is a "reminder of mum/mum is with us sentiment", while I do not feel comfortable with this idea at all. I do not want her ashes in my home.
I would like a place to visit where mum's remains are kept so that I can I can pay my respects in a private moment and remember her.
I guess my questions are: Is there something religious about my wanting Mum's earthly remains in a location I can visit? How do other people here interpret my feelings and how do they accord with the practice in their own religion or not? Have other atheists experienced this situation and had similar feelings?
Shalom or whatever.
On the other hand, I have one dead parent. Her ashes are separated, half going on a journey with my step-father to I do not know where, the other half being kept in my immediate family. No decision was made on my mother's death to a permanent memorial. In fact the ashes were kept at the funeral parlor for months after her service. One of my sisters Picked up these ashes last year.
Both of my sisters (I have two)appear happy to harbor the ashes in their homes in what I assume is a "reminder of mum/mum is with us sentiment", while I do not feel comfortable with this idea at all. I do not want her ashes in my home.
I would like a place to visit where mum's remains are kept so that I can I can pay my respects in a private moment and remember her.
I guess my questions are: Is there something religious about my wanting Mum's earthly remains in a location I can visit? How do other people here interpret my feelings and how do they accord with the practice in their own religion or not? Have other atheists experienced this situation and had similar feelings?
Shalom or whatever.
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