I detest celebrating my birthday, so I don't do it. I hate it that I can't find a way to turn off the birthday reminder in FB and I get all these birthday wishes I have to pretend I enjoy. I'm perfectly on-board with someone else's birthday, just not mine. I don't even open birthday cards. I put them in a pile, all two or three of them and let them ferment. After an appropriate fermentation period they go in the garbage, unopened.