The situation is far simpler than it often appears to be during debates, which at times get sidetracked making the whole thing look more complicated. And of course on a debating forum there are people who want to learn, teach, bring to attention, refute or cause havoc by resorting to personal attacks and childish rhetoric.
The disagreement, opposition, fight, or war - whatever description one prefers - in this world is about good vs evil, God vs satan. On the one side are the people who love God and appreciate the bounties of this life by being thankful to God, they love the after life and they seek to be the opposite of materialists. And on the other side there are those who oppose God by rejecting God, denying His existence, love this life - for they do not believe in an everlasting afterlife - and thus are of a materialist mindset.
The unbelievers (those who do not think of themselves as Muslims) like to define the world according to their ever changing secular/religious worldview, they have their own definitions of morality which are not uniform but subject to cultural trends. Muslims on the other hand have a religion that is very clear on all that is required for a successful living in this world and the hereafter. And while Allah commands the Muslims to share the message of Islam worldwide and to preserve the Islamic autonomy where established, the unbelievers are set on deploying imperialist tactics to try and force the Muslims to conform to their secular mindset and thus their way of life. Being the greedy materialists that they are, they set out to conquer any and all land that they can get their hands on. And of course history is riddled with examples of how Caucasians with a superiority complex - unrivaled by any other group of people with the exception of the Jews - have stolen land from others and then proceeded to oppress the people for centuries.
It is a sad sight indeed that today the people of the so called civilized world, are still acting in the same manner while they hypocritically wonder why the fruits of their labor are so poisonous. There is a clear double standard in assessing who the bad apple is, and arrogance has captured the hearts and minds of these unbelievers to the extend that they have to come up with ridiculous reasons for why they are on the receiving end of what they themselves are inflicting upon others. One of such reasons is the supposed envy for what they deem "freedom". Think "girls gone wild" and the right to sodomize each other. And while the Muslims according to these unbelievers are supposedly envious of that quick road to moral, psychological, spiritual and physical deterioration, the unbelievers find themselves busy protecting their precious "liberties" of sex, drugs and rock n roll which of course really needs defending with a billion dollar army.
Their conclusion is that the Muslims are trying to catch STDs, stress induced cardiovascular diseases, strokes, heart attacks, they want to get raped, parade their women like lust objects for sale on tv... just.. like.. the unbelievers. And since they can't mess themselves up as quickly as the unbelievers can they are so envious that - according to the unbelievers - "they are coming to get us".
There is no shortage of unbelievers on this board and indeed in this world, that only have one way of debating or discussing a topic pertaining to Islam and/or Muslims. Which is the blatant show of arrogance, bloated egos, (personal) insults, circular reasoning as a result of utter hatred for Islam and Muslims and the long list of insecurities that plague them.
There are of course exceptions to this rule, there are unbelievers who are open minded, respectful and humble and they are not the ones I have spoken of. By the will of Allah it is these exceptional unbelievers that find themselves on a journey for truth and end up finding it in Islam.
Moderate Muslims according to Islamic understanding are those Muslims that do not deviate from the right path, they do not move too much to the right nor too much to the left they stay in the middle on the straight path and they do not compromise the truth for the sake of pleasing anyone else.