Why are Some Men Sexually Interested in Lesbians?

[Sunstone]

This is something I've never understood. Why are some men apparently interested in sex with lesbians? How is it possible to be interested in having sex with someone who is not interested in having sex with you? I would think just the thought of it alone is enough to creep someone out. So how come some people are turned on by it?

Don't misunderstand: Offline, I have a few friends who are lesbians and they are awesome people. It's just that I'm not sexually interested in them.

 

[MysticSang'ha]

This is something I've never understood. Why are some men apparently interested in sex with lesbians? How is it possible to be interested in having sex with someone who is not interested in having sex with you? I would think just the thought of it alone is enough to creep someone out. So how come some people are turned on by it?

More boobs?

 

[Sunstone]

More boobs?

Must be.

 

[Twig pentagram]

I'm sexually interested in the lipstick lesbians not the butch ones. I actually have a tattoo of a naked woman tieing up another naked woman on my left arm.

 

[Sunstone]

I'm sexually interested in the lipstick lesbians not the butch ones. I actually have a tattoo of a naked woman tieing up another naked woman on my left arm.

Interesting. But why?

 

[Twig pentagram]

Interesting. But why?

The only thing more beautiful than a naked woman is two naked women.:yes:

 

[Sunstone]

The only thing more beautiful than a naked woman is two naked women.:yes:

Good point. But have you ever made love to a woman who wasn't interested in making love to you? Do you know what that's like?

 

[Twig pentagram]

Good point. But have you ever made love to a woman who wasn't interested in making love to you? Do you know what that's like?

Yes I do, it's not as bad as not having sex at all, besides there's plenty of women on Earth who would'nt mind a threesome. They're called bisexuals.

 

[MysticSang'ha]

I'm sexually interested in the lipstick lesbians not the butch ones.....

This took a while for my husband to get used to, as well. One night years ago, we were at a bar, and I was hit on by a "butch" lesbian. It surprised him to see me totally attracted to her, too. She got my number, and told me she'd call me, but never did.

When Steve and I were driving home, he kept asking me how I could be attracted to her. I said, "How could I NOT? She's fun, very nice-looking, personable, generous (she bought all my drinks, LOL), and freakin' hilarious!" The rest of the night, he continued to try to wrap his head around the concept of a butch lesbian being attractive. After a while, it hit him......it's only because HE'S attracted to feminine women. Lesbians per se don't really have anything to do with it, and he was projecting his own views onto my own as a bi.

So, maybe my original reply to the OP isn't that far off the mark. Maybe it really is as simple as seeing more boobs. But add to that: boobs, teased hair, heels, a pair of nice gams, and a curvy tush. Just more.

I dunno. Men are weird.

 

[Sunstone]

Yes I do, it's not as bad as not having sex at all,

Well, I won't argue with you, but I will point out that you and I disagree on this. About the worse experience I can think of, sexually speaking, is sleeping with someone who doesn't want to sleep with me. But tastes vary.

...besides there's plenty of women on Earth who would'nt mind a threesome. They're called bisexuals.

Of course, but we're talking about lesbians.

 

[Twig pentagram]

This took a while for my husband to get used to, as well. One night years ago, we were at a bar, and I was hit on by a "butch" lesbian. It surprised him to see me totally attracted to her, too. She got my number, and told me she'd call me, but never did.

When Steve and I were driving home, he kept asking me how I could be attracted to her. I said, "How could I NOT? She's fun, very nice-looking, personable, generous (she bought all my drinks, LOL), and freakin' hilarious!" The rest of the night, he continued to try to wrap his head around the concept of a butch lesbian being attractive. After a while, it hit him......it's only because HE'S attracted to feminine women. Lesbians per se don't really have anything to do with it, and he was projecting his own views onto my own as a bi.

So, maybe my original reply to the OP isn't that far off the mark. Maybe it really is as simple as seeing more boobs. But add to that: boobs, teased hair, heels, a pair of nice gams, and a curvy tush. Just more.

I dunno. Men are weird.

Did you say heels and a curvy tush?:drool:

 

[MaybeSpartacus]

Forbidden fruit is the most delicious of all? Some men might see it as the "unattainable conquest". I suppose getting a lesbian into bed would be the ultimate trophy or something.

 

[Smoke]

I can kind of see it. I'm not interested in women at all, but even I thought Better Than Chocolate was kind of a hot movie.

As for availability, I notice a lot of straight guys are turned on by Jessica Alba, and I don't think she's interested in having sex with them either.

 

[Caladan]

This is something I've never understood. Why are some men apparently interested in sex with lesbians? How is it possible to be interested in having sex with someone who is not interested in having sex with you? I would think just the thought of it alone is enough to creep someone out. So how come some people are turned on by it?

Don't misunderstand: Offline, I have a few friends who are lesbians and they are awesome people. It's just that I'm not sexually interested in them.

It's not that i'm interested in them, its just that its nice on occasion to see two women making out.

 

[The Neo Nerd]

Let me explain why i think i like lesbians.

I like naked chicks.

I like naked chicks having sex.

I don't like naked guys

I dont like naked guys having sex.

So the best sex to watch is one where there is naked chicks having sex with no naked guys, which means two naked chicks.

Plus there may be some part of me that likes seeing women surrender to their desires and do something that is socially taboo.

 

[Tiapan]

I am a lesbian in a male body I love the female form . i am sorry but it is just a fact. I love women, I feel so inadequate that I cannot in this modern age feel anything similar for a fellow male, i feel so awkward and out of place. Guess I am just old school.

Cheers

 

[Erebus]

Lesbians have never interested me greatly. Don't get me wrong, there's nothing more beautiful than two women being in love (though I find the sight of two girls kissing more appealing than the sight of two girls having sex) but since it's a love I'll never be part of I just appreciate it as a thing of beauty and move on.
It's kind of like looking at a priceless work of art. You can appreciate the sight of it, but the knowledge that you will never own it means you don't desire it for yourself (well, you might do briefly, but not on any meaningful level).

 

[Midnight Pete]

Why are Some Men Sexually Interested in Lesbians?

I am one of those men, and I really don't know. Is it that some straight guys are actually repulsed by the thought of girl-on-girl action?



(Yes, I'm a filthy dirty sinner.)

 

[Sunstone]

Lesbians have never interested me greatly. Don't get me wrong, there's nothing more beautiful than two women being in love (though I find the sight of two girls kissing more appealing than the sight of two girls having sex) but since it's a love I'll never be part of I just appreciate it as a thing of beauty and move on.
It's kind of like looking at a priceless work of art. You can appreciate the sight of it, but the knowledge that you will never own it means you don't desire it for yourself (well, you might do briefly, but not on any meaningful level).

I understand and largely share your point of view here.

 

[linwood]

I`m not into lesbians sexually.

I even find lesbian porn boring.