To answer the question about where I see myself on my own spiritual journey, that's hard to put into words. I would never want to say "I've arrived. I'm a 10", or something like that, as I've learned that it is like an infinite onion, yet another layer, yet another depth of the divine to unfold and move into.
I will say that I have had major changes that put me much more where I had hoped to be, what I had sought for. Now there's less seeking, and more finding, more just realizing it and integrating it. And that's something. It's really more breathing the air, letting go, and living life integrated new levels of freedom. I feel much more grounded, connected, clear minded, present, happy, and enjoying life in ways I knew as a child, before the world crowded that out. These are good things. I know genuine happiness. Living life with less fear. More openness.
As far as a scale goes, it definitely seems light years from where I was, yet, as if all I've done is let go, and just become a much more an authentic human. So, I'd call that spiritually fulfilled. Yet I see this as becoming a student of Life itself. I am no master by any means. I've quit presuming there is a point of having "arrived", or evaluating in those terms. I see it more as being on one side of the fence or the other, as Zen says that heaven and hell are 1/10,000th of inch apart.
I feel much more integrated into living on that other side of the fence now, and that is a relief, for sure. But if I start viewing that from the ego in terms of achievement, accomplishment, or pride, then I'd be right back feeding the ego side of that 1/10,000th of inch line. Pride cometh before the fall, quite literally.