The Kilted Heathen
Crow FreyjasmaðR
I know the difference, and did not suggest that it was.First of all, polyamory is very different than swinging.
I didn't mention sex.The emphasis in the first is on the ongoing relationship and in the second on the sex.
Monogamy isn't limiting love to one person. It's limiting devotion and loyalty to one person. If you love more than one person that's all you, but trying to devote to them equally? I think it's foolish.Why put in the effort? Why limit love to one person?
In my mind (and ymmv)
YMMV?
People don't get everything out of life that they want in life. It's called life, and no one said it would be easy.I think a serious problem many people have is that they don't get everything out of their marriage that they want in life.
But being in a monogamous marriage does not mean that you give up your interests for your partner. That's just as foolish as polyamory is to me, and polyamory isn't the factor that allows people to retain interests in a relationship; being an adult about things is.