So gathering from most of the information on here, love for some might be taken as a fear to be vulnerable, a strategy for peace, a sacrifice needed from others for those seeking forgiveness, and a focal term used in describing a harmonious usage that unites everything toward a greater good that we also call God.*
Imo, to be like Jesus is like the ultimate expression of love when fully exercised to its sacrificial end and will against all pride not carefully considered, an understanding of oneness as we become like sons of God through understanding the knowledge of Jesus being made the Christ, and the abandonments from and to the world a victory in the sense that Jesus did this so we don't have to in the same fullest measure. As long as we believe and seek this divine path we can have a continuation of life prolonging the physical and then uniting with the spiritual, an acceptance for physical punishments when justly deserved and unjustly given, and also a state of mind to conquer our physical death toward overcoming the fear of it. Anger can be good, fear can be good, all negatives can be good when determinably viewed, as long as we know we are not good because we have to struggle and strive to understand it. We are man, a conduit for good in the hopes to become eternally equated to it.*
When death is seen as our perfection and it's sting merely the last hurdle, love wins!