So, there are major, world changing ethical considerations and there are minor ones. This thread deals with 2 minor ones. I thought of putting this in "Social World" sub-forum, but wasn't sure and am curious how others would handle these situations? Both of these occurred to me recently.
Please respond to this post (my questions) before reading any other responses from me on this forum.
1 - Late one evening, I pulled into a McDonald's drive-thru, with dual lanes. The restaurant appeared dead/not busy to me. There was a car in one lane, and so I pulled into the other lane. As I rolled down my window, I heard the person in the other car ordering. I then did my order, and the employee told me to pull around and make payment at the 2nd window. There are 2 windows, when busy or during busy times of day, they use both windows. In this situation, they were only using one window.
As I pulled around, I noticed the other car in front of me, stopped at the first window. I thought that's odd, but thought they must have just been in that habit. I waited patiently for a good 30 seconds, then decided to honk and motion them to move forward. They didn't budge. I then waited another 2 minutes, they still didn't budge.
What would you have done after waiting a good 2 to 4 minutes and the car doesn't budge?
2 - I was disc golfing with a good friend who used to golf with me often and now does a few times a year. It was about an hour and half before sunset, which is just enough time for 2 people to get through before dark. The course though was fairly busy, and so we decided to start on holes on the back 9, so as to avoid the crowd on the first hole. Fairly soon we got back to that first hole, and it was still busy. We waited our turn in line, and right when we got to tee, another person I know came up and asked if he could join us. I deferred to my friend (who didn't know this other guy) and he said sure. So, our twosome was now a threesome, playing in a line of holes that were busy with other people, but behind us was a twosome. Generally, after hole 1, if smaller groups come up, you let them play through (which obviously slows you down).
After 3 holes, my friend was not playing well and I thought it partially because he was thrown off by having this other guy playing with us. So, I told the other guy, in a friendly way, if he wanted to just continue ahead of us as a single, that would be fine. He declined and said he was fine playing with us. My friend didn't hear this conversation, and a few moments later said he didn't see himself playing to the end because he thought it would be too dark.
Knowing all this, what might you do in the situation, if anything to resolve things (i.e. with desire to finish as many holes yourself with whoever is willing to play with you to the end)?
I'll respond to this post with what I did, but would strongly prefer anyone that responds to not read my response (2nd post) before offering up what you would've done, or consider the ethical thing to do in the moment.
Please respond to this post (my questions) before reading any other responses from me on this forum.
1 - Late one evening, I pulled into a McDonald's drive-thru, with dual lanes. The restaurant appeared dead/not busy to me. There was a car in one lane, and so I pulled into the other lane. As I rolled down my window, I heard the person in the other car ordering. I then did my order, and the employee told me to pull around and make payment at the 2nd window. There are 2 windows, when busy or during busy times of day, they use both windows. In this situation, they were only using one window.
As I pulled around, I noticed the other car in front of me, stopped at the first window. I thought that's odd, but thought they must have just been in that habit. I waited patiently for a good 30 seconds, then decided to honk and motion them to move forward. They didn't budge. I then waited another 2 minutes, they still didn't budge.
What would you have done after waiting a good 2 to 4 minutes and the car doesn't budge?
2 - I was disc golfing with a good friend who used to golf with me often and now does a few times a year. It was about an hour and half before sunset, which is just enough time for 2 people to get through before dark. The course though was fairly busy, and so we decided to start on holes on the back 9, so as to avoid the crowd on the first hole. Fairly soon we got back to that first hole, and it was still busy. We waited our turn in line, and right when we got to tee, another person I know came up and asked if he could join us. I deferred to my friend (who didn't know this other guy) and he said sure. So, our twosome was now a threesome, playing in a line of holes that were busy with other people, but behind us was a twosome. Generally, after hole 1, if smaller groups come up, you let them play through (which obviously slows you down).
After 3 holes, my friend was not playing well and I thought it partially because he was thrown off by having this other guy playing with us. So, I told the other guy, in a friendly way, if he wanted to just continue ahead of us as a single, that would be fine. He declined and said he was fine playing with us. My friend didn't hear this conversation, and a few moments later said he didn't see himself playing to the end because he thought it would be too dark.
Knowing all this, what might you do in the situation, if anything to resolve things (i.e. with desire to finish as many holes yourself with whoever is willing to play with you to the end)?
I'll respond to this post with what I did, but would strongly prefer anyone that responds to not read my response (2nd post) before offering up what you would've done, or consider the ethical thing to do in the moment.