Well everyone works differently and needs different things. I, personally, am just not into brooding over those who have wronged me, imagining hurting them and casting meaningless "energy" at them. That's just me though.
Doors I'm not talking about brooding. As a matter of fact I personally have no more use for destruction rituals, its been over 10 years since I've performed one. So to me your point is well taken.
Xeper.
/Adramelek\