Druidus
Keeper of the Grove
This thread is not about abortions, but rather, about the societal concept that if a female becomes pregnant with a partner, that partner MUST stay with her to raise the child in order to remain honourable.
I disagree.
If they did not use a condom, the fault is as much the female's as the male's. If they did, well, accidents happen, it's no one's fault. Anyway, now she's pregnant, and both are in a panic. Let's say the male doesn't want a kid, and/or doesn't want to marry this soon. Why should he have to, lest he be looked on disfavourably by the community? If he puts forth the option of adoption, but she doesn't want to do that, why should he be bound by her choice? If she wants to keep the child but he doesn't, fine, that's her choice to keep the child. But his choice was to not keep the child, and therefore, he will move on. The point is, why should his life be ruined merely because of a choice she makes?
Just a thought...
I disagree.
If they did not use a condom, the fault is as much the female's as the male's. If they did, well, accidents happen, it's no one's fault. Anyway, now she's pregnant, and both are in a panic. Let's say the male doesn't want a kid, and/or doesn't want to marry this soon. Why should he have to, lest he be looked on disfavourably by the community? If he puts forth the option of adoption, but she doesn't want to do that, why should he be bound by her choice? If she wants to keep the child but he doesn't, fine, that's her choice to keep the child. But his choice was to not keep the child, and therefore, he will move on. The point is, why should his life be ruined merely because of a choice she makes?
Just a thought...