Well, I read some of them, and it's seems to me that God created us and he wants us to fight the temptations that we have... For example, I'm attracted to women and according to what I know about the bible (the old testament particularly), I should fight these feelings. Is this inaccurate?
Yes and no. People tend to resort to scripture in the hope that it will provide simple, one-off answers to OUR questions. We never stop to think whether scripture has its own agenda with its attendant questions and answers. So here's how I'd parse your paragraph.
(1) "God created us." Sort of. God created humanity, and as a result of the mechanisms he built into humanity, including reproduction, we get you (praise God!). God didn't directly create us individuals, although he loves us individuals and knows us more intimately than we can possibly know.
(2) "He wants us to fight the temptations we have." Yes, I'd say that's true as far as it goes. If we're tempted to do what's evil or unhealthy or an impediment to human flourishing, of course we should fight those temptations.
(3) "I should fight these feelings (of homosexual attraction)." Here, I'd say that Christians have done homosexuals a disservice. Scripture clearly says that homosexual attraction is a symptom of the profound rupture of relationship between humans and God. Because of that rupture, everything about us, including romantic love, has been twisted in many ways. Homosexuality is only one of those twists. So is infidelity. So is sexual addiction. So is masochism. So is sexism. So is radical patriarchy. So is..... So we've done wrong to put homosexual attraction at the top of the heap of sexual vices and called it out as particularly harmful. I'm quite certain that heterosexual infidelity has done much more damage to far more people than homosexual attraction (particularly the lesbian variety) has or even possibly could do.
This lack of perspective has caused the church to do even more damage by shaming and demeaning homosexually attracted people. I personally believe that Christ's way of handling it would be much different. He would insist on sexual holiness (and wholeness), but I'm sure he would not try to enforce that by heaping up shame on people who already feel enough guilt already.
All that to say this about your comment. There is no level playing field for holiness. It may take you more effort to remain holy than it does for me. So you needn't "fight your feelings." I believe that if you are homosexually attracted, there's not much you can do to fight that. You can't make yourself be exclusively sexually attracted to men if, God help you, you're sexually attracted to women. That would be a losing fight. Yet you CAN remain chaste, that is, you can resist becoming sexually involved with a woman. This, as I've said, may be a tall order. It may also be unfair. But Christ himself said that some people are called to lifetime chastity. Some are "called" into it by force; circumstances (such as homosexuality) or perpetrated evil (such as emasculation or some other) may force the issue. Some people, heterosexual or not, would love to marry or experience erotic love with another person but are called to chastity by God so that they may avoid the distractions of the world in order to better do whatever work God is calling them to. And some others do it for their own motivations. Whatever the case, lifetime chastity is a very tall order, may be unfair, but God promises His Spirit to help you cope.
All people are called by God into a life of repentance, faith, and service. The exact shape of that will be different for all of us, and some of us will have an easier time of it than others. We can only rejoice that God is merciful. He provides means of escape from our temptations, and when we fall, he offers us a continual invitation to repentance, forgiveness, and community with fellow sinners who will love and support you.
