godnotgod
Thou art That
Yes, this reality *is* reality.
...we do have a common reality that we can learn about through observation and testing.
You have rejected reality for a dream because reality seems like an illusion. Now it is time to go back and realize reality is reality and enlightenment is the dream.
To quote your own words:
"...we have to give up most of our pre-conceptions concerning how things 'must be' because how they really are is seldom what we think they should be."
So 'this reality' that you say IS reality, is not actually Reality. That is what I am saying to you. The world, as it appears to be, that is to say, as 'real' is not real, but an illusion. Even when we apply science, we only come up with how the illusion behaves and how we can predict that behavior. That's really all science is. But science cannot tell us what the world actually IS. Science is still an altered state of consciousness. In order to see into the true nature of Reality, we must go to another kind of view.