I'm pretty much making generalizations. In comparison to the amount of emotional trauma women go through with abortions, men suffer relatively nothing.
I know a grown man who, after a couple of beers, will still break down and cry about the child of his that he feels he helped kill. He is tormented by grief and guilt because thirty years ago he paid for his college girlfriend to have an abortion. Only after he became a father a decade later, did he truly realize what he had done. His wife at the time refused to have more children. They had tried desperately for years for her to conceive, and when she finally did, she poured all her attention and affection into this one child and refused to have any more.
You know why it was so difficult for her to conceive in the first place? It was because she had used abortion as birth control when she was a teenager and young adult. She had had at least three abortions and the scarring of her uterus was so severe that she it took her ten years to be able to carry one baby to term.
An aside note - she felt so guilty about all those abortions that she fixated on her only child, so much so that this fixation has wrecked several marriages. Her husbands can't deal with the unbalanced attention that she gives her only child. And the child? All I can say is that I hope he turns out OK - but he's been raised in an unrealistic setting. It's going to be a shock to him when he realizes that the world doesn't revolve around him. And furthermore - he's had to deal with his mother's multiple marriages and drama.
So now you have the irony of a man who wanted to have two or three kids, a child he helped abort, a wife who had had numerous abortions who ten years later realizes that she desperately wants a baby, and the irony that once she finally conceives successfully, she refuses to have more children, and a man who realizes too late that he DID have the opportunity to have more children - but he threw that opportunity, and that child, away.
Sad.
Abortion can leave a trail of emotional damage - one that can impact several generations.