Back in November, I invited my close friends out to celebrate my birthday. 4 out of the 6 that RSVP'd and that told me they were going to show up, didn't, nor did they offer me an apology or offer to take me out at some other time. Mind you my friends have a tendency to be flakey (especially when they are occupied with women), but to be so on my b-day is unacceptable in my mind. No matter what, I've always made sure that I show up at their birthday events, even when I was going through severe depression.
Now these same friends are now inviting me to their b-day parties and I really don't think they deserve my company.
What do you guys think: Should I not hold a grudge and go to their parties? Or should I do what I feel like doing and tell them to take a hike?
Now these same friends are now inviting me to their b-day parties and I really don't think they deserve my company.
What do you guys think: Should I not hold a grudge and go to their parties? Or should I do what I feel like doing and tell them to take a hike?