I agree when you say that consistency is relevant to me, but saying that "reality is always consistent" doesn't make sense to me because consistency is temporal, and I cannot know the future (e.g. even if acceleration due to gravity were to change, that would still be part of the same reality I have known of up until that moment)The relevant part of reality is that it is consistent and orderly.
Reality means that you can't change it by wishful thinking, nor can or will a "god" entity.
Reality is the security of knowing that, when you wake up, the gravity is still 9.81 m/s², your mother-in-law can't change you into a newt and that radioactive spider that bit you, won't give you super powers.
To clarify: By reality I mean everything I personally percieve of, by any method.