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I think Kristofferson trumps...Buttons* said:*sings loudly and out of tune* "Freedom isnt free, it costs folks like you and me!.....a buck o' five!"
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I think Kristofferson trumps...Buttons* said:*sings loudly and out of tune* "Freedom isnt free, it costs folks like you and me!.....a buck o' five!"
What, people are posting their opinions? What is this discussion board coming to?s2a said:Ya know, I've observed more than a few folks stating that (in essence), "porn is wrong (or evil, bad, destructive, etc.)", but offer virtually no support for their position (beyond personalized opinion).
Not quite. The issue at hand is not whether pornography should be censored or illegalized (I do not recall anyone bringing this up). I certainly do not think it should be illegalized.s2a said:I can't help but be reminded of the (alcohol) prohibitionists of the early 20th century in this regard.
Booze is bad.
Booze made me do bad things.
I've seen others do bad things drinking booze.
I can't control my bad actions when I drink booze.
Therefore, no one should be able to drink booze, because booze is bad for everyone.
I doubt anyone here disagrees with this point. And to add to what you said, healthy discussion certainly helps in those choices, which brings us to our next point:s2a said:I believe in personal freedom to choose for oneself...what to choose for oneself.
Hmm.. I do not think anyone is suggesting they have authority over you or anyone else. I am not sure why you feel this way. Do you believe any discussion on morality and ethics is inapprorpiate?s2a said:Your conscientious counsel and objections are noted, but don't tell me what I can or can not responsibly choose for myself.
Focus on your own damn family.
Speaking of coherency, I do not follow your point. Are nastiness and coherency mutally exclusive?mr.guy said:Isn't it a bit weird to accuse someone of "nastiness" for being coherent?
atofel said:People would like to think that indulging in certain behaviors does not change who we are, but there are certain neural pathways that become strengthened as habits develop. It is hard to believe the ones nurtured by indulgency in pornography (particularly when done in secrecy) are going to help men in sexual struggles they will inevitably face later in life.
That's pretty much it though, isn't it? A belief statement. Personally, i find it hard to believe that extreme sexual suppression is any more of a golden ticket. Why would "indulgers" be viewing porn in secret if not for the associated shame that puritans like yourself propagate? This internal logic of the sexual "beast taming" we hear so much of is just tired victorian chatter. Good luck with it, Dr.Kellog.It is hard to believe the ones nurtured by indulgency in pornography (particularly when done in secrecy) are going to help men in sexual struggles they will inevitably face later in life.
Do you think not looking at porn is extreme sexual suppression? Or just having to do it in secret is extreme sexual suppression? I imagine the majority of men who are married and view porn do it in secret...or at least downplay the habit quite a bit to their wives.mr.guy said:That's pretty much it though, isn't it? A belief statement. Personally, i find it hard to believe that extreme sexual suppression
I thoroughly enjoy pornography in all formats. Men are visual creatures, I've found.Orichalcum said:What is your stance on this?
All of the men I see in pornography always seem to be completely enjoying themselves. I haven't seen any "degrading" moments in any of the pornography I rent, but then I'm not into S&M. I view pornography as foreplay, and a natural male ... uh, enhancement.I view it as degrading.
Pornography is great for me, as it is for millions of of other men, and I have a fantastic boyfriend that I still share it with after twelve wonderful years together.But for some people it can be good ( so i'm told ), as in a friend who only views it because he doesn't have the time to get a girlfriend ( Yes, it sounds stupid to me too ).
I think I'm going to take a trip to my local distributor later on this afternoon in order to rent a few choice titles. So far, I'm still free to do that where I live.What do you think?
It might only be offensive here in the decidedly sex-phobic country we share.If this is deemed in anyway offensive then delete.
I can it see it would be convenient to characterize me as some victorian stooge out to repress sexuality, but that does not represent my philosophy at all. I am all for open communication and dialogue on sexuality (particularly with young people) and believe sex is something that should be celebrated and cherished. I am for education, not condemnation.mr.guy said:That's pretty much it though, isn't it? A belief statement. Personally, i find it hard to believe that extreme sexual suppression is any more of a golden ticket. Why would "indulgers" be viewing porn in secret if not for the associated shame that puritans like yourself propagate? This internal logic of the sexual "beast taming" we hear so much of is just tired victorian chatter. Good luck with it, Dr.Kellog.
To deny your urges is to deny who you are. Most people are taught to find certain things about themselves as undesirable or animalistic and so they repress them thinking they have done good. To really live "your" life and not someones elses view of how you should live you need to let yourself goEvery man should seek to have full command of their faculties
Then baffle yourself away; it's unlikely you'll make much sense of any dissenting arguments or statements with such a binary approach.atofel said:I find it odd that anyone would take the position that there are certain instincts or urges that a man ought not attempt to temper or control.
Towards what end?
What an odd blanket statement to make. If you were to counsel a cocaine addict, what would you tell him?ch'ang said:To deny your urges is to deny who you are.....To really live "your" life and not someones elses view of how you should live you need to let yourself go
Of course, it would be a lot easier for me to understand your position if you actually put forth an argument for it rather than play the continuous critic.mr.guy said:Then baffle yourself away;
I'm not sure how this maps back to my statement.mr.guy said:it's unlikely you'll make much sense of any dissenting arguments or statements with such a binary approach.
To find and scoop out the best adventure that we can have in this life.mr.guy said:Towards what end?
:clap Here, here!ch'ang said:To deny your urges is to deny who you are.
I wonder what horrific, lingering social disease can be squarely blamed for such repression.Most people are taught to find certain things about themselves as undesirable or animalistic and so they repress them thinking they have done good.
Just so I can understand, are we cheering the victory of fear, anxiety, jealousy, greed, lust and anger over any ideals that might stand in their way?godfree1 said:To deny your urges is to deny who you are.:clap Here, here!
I did not object to the posting of "opinions". I noted the lack of support in voicing of said opinions. Such support is only necessary/important if you wish to persuade others to accede/accept your own lent perspective. If you simply want to be the railing unshaven evangelist on the streetcorner of injustice, then rant away...and reap the respect you prospectively sow."What, people are posting their opinions? What is this discussion board coming to?"
Bully for you. Props to your constitutionally-protected respect for freedom of speech/expression. How magnanimous of you."The issue at hand is not whether pornography should be censored or illegalized (I do not recall anyone bringing this up). I certainly do not think it should be illegalized."
Asserted "personal" authority (as in, "I am your King")...no.Hmm.. I do not think anyone is suggesting they have authority over you or anyone else. I am not sure why you feel this way. Do you believe any discussion on morality and ethics is inapprorpiate?
Well ok. Within the context of what is moral or ethical, what sort of "support" are you looking for? In other words, what do you consider to be the moral authority or justification that would validate any sort of evidence?s2a said:I did not object to the posting of "opinions". I noted the lack of support in voicing of said opinions.
I am not aware of any Christian doctrine that discusses legislation of pornography. Nor do I not represent this universal opinion of those Christian people that you seem to have. There may be some people out there that seek this legislation in the name of Christianity, but I am not one of them. Asserting such generalizations about your audience will likely lead to miscommunication.s2a said:Bully for you. Props to your constitutionally-protected respect for freedom of speech/expression. How magnanimous of you.
But if you wish to propose/suggest that many Christians DO NOT seek to censor (or otherwise legally prohibit) porn, then you reside within a reality of one (or distinct few). The issues I raise are directly relevant to the issue at hand.
I would be happy to review any Christian doctrine that you know of which suggests I am given any sort of authority over you simply based on my faith. So given I do not believe this, and given you do not believe in the Judeo/Christian God, why again do you feel anyone has a moral authority over you?s2a said:Asserted "personal" authority (as in, "I am your King")...no.
"Moral authority" (as in, "I speak for the Word of the God of the Bible"), you betcha.
The lent (or suggested) "authority" of the Judeo/Christian Bible or (its associative) Scripture is predicated solely upon the notion that such work is the "ultimate authority" (of which, so many amateur claimants profess to be pious "experts' thereof).
Actually, I did respond to your initial post here (sorry if you missed it):s2a said:Well...I offered my "stance" (one) within this very thread. Would you care to address/rebut any of the comments I have offered...*specifically*?
I did offer two posts with arguments against pornography, and they are both absent of religious dogma. The first post is the one I linked above, and here is the second:s2a said:In counter to your inference that I would seek to suppress/minimalize discussion/debate specific to the topic-at-hand, I invite you to specifically and categorically state (or reference) your own qualified statements regarding the ethical/moral nature of pornography (as it may apply) in a secularly "free" society. What are the ethical/moral implications of porn, absent any religious dogma?
Is porn "good", or "bad" (or degrading"), or amoral?
What do you think?
That's the question at hand, that awaits your answer (and substantiative argumentative support).
;-)