Gracie, I'm a New Ager, and I have no crystals, no dreamcatchers, and I in no way intend to "better myself financially through goddess worship", whatever that means. Commercial? Hmm. The only money that New Age has cost me is a $30 donation to a charity in exchange for a book. Overly self-focused? My spirituality asks me to forget my self, and do everything for the benefit of the Self - the collective consciousness, the true being, the All.
Jensa, there are countless misinterpretations of what New Age is. Not all New Agers believe in crystals, astrology, energy fields, auras, and meditation, so if that's what you are basing your judgment of it on, then perhaps it is your perception of the spirituality - and not the spirituality itself - that is fluffy.