Is it just me, or..

[Demonic Kitten]

That's really quite sad. Nobody should be made to feel that way.

I know that now. Of course I'm the type of person who thinks that everything happens for a reason. If I knew then what I know now would things have turned out like they are now? I don't know...and to be honest I don't want to know. Learning from my mistakes have made me who I am today ^_^

 

[Erebus]

I know that now. Of course I'm the type of person who thinks that everything happens for a reason. If I knew then what I know now would things have turned out like they are now? I don't know...and to be honest I don't want to know. Learning from my mistakes have made me who I am today ^_^

Very true. Mistakes are vital to developing as a person. I know that if I hadn't made certain mistakes in my own past I would be nowhere near as strong as I am now.

 

[Father Heathen]

I can't speak for everyone, but for me I thought it was normal for a guy to treat a girl like that....

I see, but what is it about our culture and society that causes girls end up with such a mentality in the first place?

 

[dawny0826]

Human psychology makes no sense to me. Wouldn't people generally try to avoid the sort of things that caused them pain in the past? You know, "fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me."

Then again...sometimes you don't realize that you're going to be hurt and abused until it happens. There are players who are simply good at playing people.

For girls especially, I think it's helpful when there's someone positive in your life, that sets a good example for the opposite (or same) sex.

 

[Sunstone]

For girls especially, I think it's helpful when there's someone positive in your life, that sets a good example for the opposite (or same) sex.

I'm in total agreement with you, Dawny. I think it's important for both boys and girls to have someone in their life that sets a good example for the opposite sex. But I've gotten the impression over the years that it is especially important for girls. If girls don't have that, they tend to get into all sorts of trouble in relationships.

 

[The Voice of Reason]

... and that's why it's important to know who your Daddy is ...


... Angellous