People use words to express their feelings. They have no obligation to use it according to the definition you feel they should be using.
Neither did I suggest they should be obligated. However, I'm offering my opinion on that usage. That is how opinions work, and discussions, and debates. It's not about 'obligation'.
Wish we could always do that but it's not the way democracy works. You want smaller, less intrusive government great. I'm all for it. Unfortunately it's not the individual who decides on the laws and not every law enforced by the government is going to be what we want it to be.
I'm not saying your position is wrong, just when it comes to moral issues there is no clear line between right and wrong.
You're mixing and matching all sorts of concepts in these posts though. So, if we don't criminalize abortion, at least in the first trimester (for the sake of argument) then that is EXACTLY how democracy would be working. Allowance of abortion doesn't obligate anyone to use it, but allows individuals to make their own determination, based on their own beliefs and their own unique situations.
This is something I believe is good for society, and therefore something I am arguing for. End of story.