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Is a sex life like this possible?

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by N7OperativeSentinel, May 19, 2019.

  1. N7OperativeSentinel

    N7OperativeSentinel New Member

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    I don't want kids but I do want to be with an intelligent women who likes adventure and science and has no problem with casual sex.

    But the thing is I only want casual sex once in a while. Maybe once a year.

    Do liberal women who only have sex once in a while exist irl?
     
  2. Gandalf

    Gandalf He Who Toots His Horn

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    So you want to marry a drinking aged college student?
     
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  3. Erebus

    Erebus Well-Known Member

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    Yes.

    People have sex in various quantities and various ways. You have to get pretty damn specific in order to be the only person on the planet with a given taste.
     
  4. SomeRandom

    SomeRandom Still learning to be wise

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    Sure. Some women have relatively low libidos, compared to average I mean.
    Go search dating apps or I dunno, the library or meet people somewhere.
    There’s someone for everyone.
     
  5. Terry Sampson

    Terry Sampson ζει

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    (a) Fact: Human sexual desire varies from individual to individual.
    (b) An individual's sexual desire is a function of multiple factors. Genetics is a big, big factor.
    (c) An individual's sexual desire can range from 0 (zero) to some very large number of times in frequency. [see "Hyposexuality" and "Hypersexuality")
    (d) An individual's sexual desire can also vary over time.
    (e) I recently read about doctor-prescribed medications that can increase sexual desire, ... if desired and approved. [Here, I am NOT referring to viagra and variants.]
    (f) I suspect there are also doctor-prescribed medications than can decrease sexual desire ... if desired and approved.
    (g) "Normal" sexual desire is a false myth.
    (g) Couples should, in my opinion, have a frank discussion about their sexual desires. Married life can be challenging enough as it is. Substantial differences in partners' sexual desires can doom a marriage before it gets off the ground.

    In answer to your question, I don't know. But there are close to 8,000,000,000 humans in the world and goodly portion of them are women. So, I inclined to say "yes" to your question.
    Good luck!.
     

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    Skwim Veteran Member

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    No doubt there are women out there who don't want casual sex more than once a year, or maybe limit themselves to it, but I doubt you'll find one unless you advertise for it. How does your current ad read?

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  7. Dan From Smithville

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    Is the woman you describe in your first sentence the one that you want to have casual sex with or is it in addition to that woman?
     
  8. Dan From Smithville

    Dan From Smithville Well-Known Member
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    Isn't that an internet game? Come up with some crazy combination and see if there are sites that cater to it.
     
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  9. Gandalf

    Gandalf He Who Toots His Horn

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    I should also clarify that me and my wife do not have relations as often as one might think. At our peek it was only weekly granted I have the stamina of a triathlon runner and our "activities" are pretty extreme it makes up for the lack of frequency.

    I do not require much as long as my wife is on my lap enjoying her Japanese cartoons. I am a content customer in that department and perhaps pretty low maintenance.

    Just occurred to me that right now we are on a 2 month stretch and haven't really seen each other for about 3 weeks. It is just like that with us but also we're very busy and do not get bored of each other. Pretty funny despite the fact we live in the same home but its worked for years. So I think you shouldn't worry about this since I can relate as I am not a touchy feely sort of person and my wife would be very ashamed if she intruded on that and knows not to.
     
  10. Estro Felino

    Estro Felino Believer in free will
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    Don't go for Italians, then. :p
     
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    Epic Beard Man Bearded Philosopher

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    hahahahaha good luck.....Once a year? Maybe with an old woman
     
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    Amanaki sotāpanna

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    It is fully possible to live in a healthy relationship even without any sex at all.
    Me and my fianceé live very happy without any form of sexual life.
     
  13. Aupmanyav

    Aupmanyav Be your own guru

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    If once a year, you can as well do without it.
     
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    Well that would depend of the quality of said act.
    To give an example, I don't drink alcohol (because I don't like the taste); however once or twice a year, in the cold months, I drink 1/2 pint of Guinness and it is a wonderful experience, both in taste and feeling.
    I could give it up, but why should I? (rhetorical)
     
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    oldbadger Skanky Old Mongrel!

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    Hi........... :)

    Good luck with your search. But you're probably searching for your nightmare, rather than your dream-life.

    That's OK, many of us need a good hell-on-earth nightmare before we get a chance to find happiness.

    Let's look at your CV for a perfect partner.

    Intelligent. Too intelligent will constantly and upsettingly show you up. You won't feel good.

    Adventure. Adventurous women can be quite totally terrifying in their levels of courage, and you'll need to be able to cope with stress and risk and fear, possibly beyond your own reserves.

    Science. What science? Rocket science? Medicine? Chrome plating on plastics? Don't show the world that you are wishy-washy with your list of requirements.

    Casual sex. That's it. Put that in your CV and you've just got rid of everybody in the above list of abilities, straight away. You've just told the whole lot that you don't really give a hoot for 'em, just need a casual sex-fix now and then, with no real ties.

    A blueprint for failure, right there on the paper. :)

    :)
     
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    Polymath257 Think & Care
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    Do you require monogamy?
     
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    Do so at your own risk!
     
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    Kangaroo Feathers Hardline moderate

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    ... they only want sex once a year? Where did you go to college??
     
  19. Gandalf

    Gandalf He Who Toots His Horn

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    In California. Them girls don't put out buddy. I was always distinguished for having a girl
     
  20. Dan From Smithville

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    Back in the 90's I was looking up information on a few particular spices and that was enough to provide thousands of links to adult sites in addition the much fewer links that were of actual interest.

    I recall on a lark, I once entered the term blue jay and wolf into Google to see what would result. I got back hits. A lot of artwork where blue jays had been merged with wolves.
     
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