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How do you kiss?

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by savagewind, Dec 9, 2019.

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  3. Sometimes open and sometimes closed

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  1. savagewind

    savagewind Veteran Member
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    At 18 I believed that I would be fine too. But, it didn't pan out that way. But, just learn from your mistakes and you will be OK.
     
  2. Vinayaka

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    I wouldn't know. I've never kissed.
     
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  3. Estro Felino

    Estro Felino Believer in free will
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    Being blindfolded while being kissed...:p:oops:
    I like that
     
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  4. sun rise

    sun rise "Let there be peace and love among all"
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    At my age, long, sexy kisses are in my past. But if my youth were suddenly restored, if I wanted to focus on the feeling of a woman's kiss, I'd close my eyes. If I wanted to connect with her while kissing, I'd keep my eyes open.
     
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  5. exchemist

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    Yeah, well, my wife died of cancer 3 years ago and to be frank I simply don't have the urge to start all that sort of thing again with someone else. I've had a long and varied enough sex life as it is and I look back on the lovely girls I have known (in the ahem biblical sense) with some pride and satisfaction. It's enough.
     
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  6. savagewind

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    I think it is a fear of connection that I have because even when I talk to someone, my eyes are open, but not seeing.
     
  7. savagewind

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    And, you do not remember if you kissed your wife with your eyes open or shut? Please, know that I mourn your loss.

    I lost my husband of thirty years. He divorced me. But, my heart wasn't happy to live alone for the rest of my life so I gave a man my number, and here i am!
     
  8. ChristineM

    ChristineM "Be strong" I whispered to my coffee.
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    But it depends on the kiss and who with

    I selected closed because thats how i kiss hubby.

    The kids, it usually a peck on the cheek, eyes open

    Then there are bisses, cheek to cheek kissing, eyes open
     
  9. Sinncubus-74

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    Current boyfriend is actually not my first love, I've experienced heartbreak in the past and have learned a lot from it about my standards and what's best for me. I didn't become available until I'd become self-respecting enough to value my happiness over the desire to not be alone or please someone else. I'm currently the happiest I've ever been romantically.
     
  10. savagewind

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    Good for you! It seemed to me that you said you are having a long-distance first encounter. I am saying that not all is what it seems to be. You know that. Right?
     
  11. Brickjectivity

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    Men have to read about how to do this right or be told. Its not automatic, however I gather there are analogous experiences which can help. 1. experience with paper scissors rock 2. Tai Chi Push Hands practice 3. Rehearsing the villain parts of James Bond films 4. Dancing the Cha Cha (Bruce Lee's first martial art)

    Anybody else know anything that helps?
     
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  12. Sinncubus-74

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    I think what I said about the kiss was misleading - the past relationship that didn't work out was long distance, I never saw them in person by the time it was over. The other heartbreaks, while mostly involving people I knew in person, involved rejection and the like from people I had strong feelings for and really thought were the mystical "one". Hence why I haven't kissed yet.
     
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  14. Erebus

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    Always with eyes cowled.

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  15. savagewind

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    Closed. Right? LOL
     
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    Variety is the spice of life... {blush}
     
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    @savagewind . This is what I could call a good kiss.



    And it's got a little bit of both... the kiss begins at around the 2 minute mark.
     
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  18. dybmh

    dybmh Terminal Optimist
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    There's always "The Dreaming"... where lovers can be truly free.
     
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    Q: How should people kiss?
    A: Ask dybmh.
     
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  20. Estro Felino

    Estro Felino Believer in free will
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    It is nice to watch Monica to remind me of what my accent sounds like...:p
     
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