If I were to picture it, it is somewhat as if you came into the Catholic Church, say with us in Mass, took the Eucharist, and then as people talked with you after Mass, you tell them you are not Catholic but believe in Christ. As you tell them your belief, they will obviously be offended. Depending on the century, to the point of killing.
Bahai isn't the victim here, though. If I got technically, the Bahai view of god and his manifestations would be victims, but like jesus, it does make sense. I can see why his peers were angry to the point of killing him. It's not a agree-to-disagree matter. Yet, many christians see Christ as the victim when the Jews didn't provoke the matter, it was Christ.
The issue is, no one can debate it because both of you say your beliefs come from god. How can god be a victim? You'd have to see it in another person's shoes. It may make it seem like god is the victim, but he's not. All religions are man-made. All.